If you'd read my post, you'd have seen that my one and only problem with such celebrations is the people who empower themselves over the negative aspects rather than the positive ones, which is effectively back-peddling the whole thing since they wind up demanding "more rights than others" for equality.
I sure as hell wouldn't want such celebrations rid of, I'm merely saying that some people who reflect wrongly on the history of such events damage the purpose of the celebration and often times risk making things worse.
These parades aren't made for the assholes and 'extremists' that demands more rights because they're better or want to be treated better. These demonstrations are made in memory, as mentioned before, of horrific acts, blatant unfairness and inequality. These demonstrations took, and still take, place because the people involved in them were treated as a being of lesser importance. Are people going to be angry? Still? Depending on what they've personally been witness to in their lifetime and how they deal with such things? Yes, of course.
The assholes that take things to the extreme are what the media put the focus on because 'mainstream acceptance' doesn't want to embrace the "agenda" of the community that the demonstration is the focus of (hispanic pride, racial rights, sexism, pink is the new black, whatever). You, sitting in front of your TV, are not really being exposed to whats out there in the parade, what the message is. You're just getting a look at what mass media wants everyone to believe "These fuckers are out to steal our husbands and turn our children gay!" No. Not really. I'm not saying thats what you think, but I'm saying thats what people are made to believe because of the media bullshit putting these morons like Chris Crocker or a Rosie O'Donnell that hasn't slept for 3 days and decides to make a video blog or some angry SUPER leftist liberal twink on the fucking television and thats immediately how the idiotic masses believe everyone is.
There's a "scab" because we had to heal in the first place. If people weren't so fucking stupid as to immediately want to kill, bomb or dissect anything thats different from their own personal definition of normal, we wouldn't be having this conversation in the first place. You can't have demonstrations and memorials without remembering the past. The future is based on our learning from mistakes that we have already made.
And to that bolded shit above, just because you dont understand me, doesn't mean I didn't read it. Get over yourself.