Why is everyone saying he didn't give the money back? From what I read he did send the initial payment back. And you say it isn't about the exp but it sounds like it is a lot about the exp (as well as the trust). Frankly.. if I give my info to someone I don't expect them NOT to have fun with my character. It's a game after all. And I might ask them to level a job up for me for a bit but I don't say "hey you can't do this this and this" cause, quite frankly, it's a game. Gil used.. I can make again just fine, exp lost? I've gone through long exp grinds I can do it again. It's just a game to me but if my friends enjoy themselves than that's more important to me. The game to me is far less important than my friends and people I care about enjoying themselves. Now, they, of coarse, respect me enough where they don't die all that often (it was only once so far to my knowledge) and they don't use my gil up at all.
What I'm saying really is that I'm a bit disgusted by both sides. You never put any restrictions on what he could do in the first place. You only asked for him to level his NIN which he didn't and he sent the gil back. If you just expected him to know not to do certain things well... no one is a mind reader so it's foolish to think he would know not to. Certainly somethings are obvious as you might not want to die and I'm sure Necrosis wasn't going around just getting killed every place he could. Now, Necrosis really should have finished leveling the NIN off to 37 and not expect any more gil since he did use your character for other things (and prolly shoulda sent the money back that you sent him even after completing NIN to 37 since he did use your character for other things).
Everyone is so quick to just put Necrosis on the cross cause he fishbotted (OMG WHAT ASHAME D: FISHBOTTING CAUSE FISHING IS JUST SOOO EXCITING.. jesus christ people.. shut the FUCK up about that..fishing isn't fun to some people and don't care to sit at the computer for hours on end to level it when they could do something more productive like... oh... school work?) and people claim he bots at other NMs and such. Now this just pisses me off to no end cause a lot of these people are the same people that defend the fucking gilsellers who flee hack, bot, warp, etc all over the place. And some of the same people I know are ones that are so naive to think the JP don't bot either.. you're all so quick to hang Necrosis but just fine with the gilsellers and JP out botting them at NMs and such. Either hang all of the botters or shut the fuck up and just sit by as you get out claimed by the botters (granted you have a chance, small as it might be) at NMs or, here's a thought, get a bot of your own. Square Enix already said several times that bots are acceptable if the player is at the computer.. so it's not breaking the laws of the game or anything.
Anyways.. both sides look bad to me. Necrosis for not getting his friend's NIN to 37 (but atleast he sent the 5 mil back as I believe I read) as well as using Sote's character so lightly. Sote for seeming to care more about the exp loss on his BST and other things about his character in some stupid game than a friend's enjoyment. You gave him the account, you should have expected him to use it to the fullest. As for Kisada, well, I don't know him well, I don't hate him or like him really, but he comes off rude in the screenshots. However, that can be expected when he is angry his cousin (whom it seems he is close to) is quitting because of what Necrosis supposedly was doing with his cousin's character. Oh well...