I've done it several times, using:
Earth Staff / grip which gives HP / blank / Happy Egg or Fenrir Stone
Genbu Helm / Bloodbeat Amulet / Intruder's / Pigeon
Osode (to make intruder's work) / Seiryu Hands / Bomb Queen Ring / Jelly Ring
Resentment / Ocean Belt / Ogre Trousers / Marine F Boots
I go for a HP setup as chances are no matter what you stack on top you're going to take little to no difference in damage against the defense added on. Going for Emnity is kinda pointless as I noticed with Charm you can build hate up quite fast.
You can fit Resentment Cape for Gigant Mantle and Jelly Ring for Bloodbead but I had no such luxuries.
If Intruder's don't work, hard luck I guess. Also, I won't go for that neck piece either. You will not recover enough HP for it to be of any benefit to you (tic, 1, tic, 1, tic 1.... compared to tic, SMASH 150~500 damage, tic, SMASHHHH boom die)
If you get Skadi Feet those should help you a lot, I wish to try kiting Kirin again if I ever get Skadi Feet.
Note that a few times I kited Kirin I never died but it took me 3-4 snarls to get Kirin completely off me and onto CC. Snarl does NOT remove ALL hate it seems. So while I struggled to get Kirin off me without death, I continued kiting while TheFlock had a stream of flying demons and angry crabs chasing after it.
You might struggle with getting within range for charm early in the fight until hate is established but if you want you can always swap out the gear for HP gear over time, or don't get hit as much so the WHM isn't dumping cures on you.