It's been pretty good for me (other than as Zalt can tell you, I've been having to chase a whole lotta tails for my shells, especially the first week after merge; I might STILL have to do it for CurseTheYagudo stragglers since some of our folks don't log on often and it took us a week to rebuild the shell b/c no one could get a shell that first week.) other than one little thing.
Mind, I haven't seen this happen since I first started playing, and was when I was in my starter RSE, poking things to death very slowly, but...
...I had a donk try to hit on me. Very blatantly, I might add.
Mind, I never look for a BF in game. I'd rather get a BF, then get him into FFXI. Not the other way around. So that's red flag for me if you're asking me for dates/hitting on my kitteh in a serious fashion. (At least one of my friends can get away with it, but then I know it's rp/joking there) I ended up blisting him. First time I've EVER had to do that. (Spammers and player run casinos don't count, even tho I blist those). IMO, anyone who hits on my chara needs to get a life. So I don't tolerate that unless you're joshing w/me and I know the person well enough to know if they are kidding. ^^ (I'm surprised I haven't had anyone hit on the kitteh much before though. Maybe it's the fact my chara's in frumpy mage robes or everyone thinks I'm a guy. Dunno!)
I've had it lucky with Campaign so far but then I've never been hardcore with that, I mainly use it to keep my 75 jobs capped. Tho yes, it's crowded and yes, they're shorter, so I have to be faster getting there or I won't get much xp. I do NOT want to do xarc again though :nono:; not after that dragon that pounced me made it so I had to campaign twice as long just to recap whm!
Also all the name changes have been giving me a very bad headache; I'm horrible with names of people I don't know well and half my dyn shell had to change their names. Not. Funny. I've been all :wacko: for the moment, but I'm sure I'll get used to it.
The upper jueno bazaar mall took some getting used to. Anyway to sum it up; most people I've met have been pretty nice, so I don't have much to complain about other than name changes and having to chase down way too many people lately. (Had to chase a doesn't-log-on-much member of CTY yesterday as a matter of fact so I could get him to Nimbex for a pearl. Said person had to change his name, blah. I did get him oriented as best I could though.)