I've had a bossy RDM in my PT last night, after our initial killer PT had to lose both its WHM and BRD.
What happened is a Goblin Butcher was zoned in Yhoator Jungle. Then, a Call for Help was issued. I decided to rush in and help with killing the monster, knowing fully well we'd be the first PT it'd aggro on its way back. The PT eventually followed my lead as I got killed right after unloading Eagle Eye Shot. The time it took me to take a chocobo at Kazham, the flame war started between me and the newly arrived RDM.
RDM: "?%*#!!!!! Why did you go help them?!?"
ME: "Because it would have strolled from the zone to our camp for half an hour if no one killed it."
RDM: "You ?%*#!!! If you go fight it, it WILL come to kill us after you die!!!"
ME: "Hey, if you're so afraid, why don't you zone then? It won't follow you there."
RDM: "Whatever, you're slowing down our PT with your antics! And almost got everyone killed!!!"
ME: "Between dying and coming back immediately to fight mobs, or sitting half an hour in Yuhtunga Jungle, I'd much rather take a hit and win it right back."
RDM: "It's not your business to decide if you're helping others or not. It should be up to the leader."
LDR: "Um........."
ME: "Listen, I'll go answer a Call for Help if we're not fighting or pulling a mob, okay? If you're not happy, then zone when I do, your xp will be safe."
Anyways, we got right back into getting xp and went as far as a chain #5. Glad I didn't leave the PT out of sheer frustration towards that ungrateful brat. Probably never pulled in his life anyways. But in the end, though I believe I did the right thing, I wonder if I would have had enough weight in my arguments if there wasn't enough people helping kill the goblin and it did stay near the zone in spite of my sacrifice. At least the BRD agreed with me on that argument, and we made friends over that.
I've started pulling in Yhoator Jungle last night. Thankfully, there was a PT taking on gobs from time to time near the hunting grounds, so it made my job easier. But I did had to slither past a Gob pop one time. If it had turned around, I would have bit the bullet. I kept looking back while on auto-run to make sure I didn't have it running after me. Better one death than half a dozen I always say. And a chocobo run in the Jungle is both cheap and fast, compared to being raised and waiting for weakness to wear off. I get that xp I didn't win back from the raise right as I dismount my chocobo into our camp, or in the hunting grounds if they didn't start pulling while I was away.
Still... Some people have that mentality that any xp loss is unacceptable, and aren't willing to look at the bigger picture. I don't expect people to play hero and take the fall on a bad pull every time in sensitive zones like Yhoator Jungle (and I've heard Garlaige Citadel and Crawler's Nest, haven't been there yet.) But dang it, if someone calls for help on a zoned gob, I won't stand idle knowing that it'll be coming back to kill me.
What happened is a Goblin Butcher was zoned in Yhoator Jungle. Then, a Call for Help was issued. I decided to rush in and help with killing the monster, knowing fully well we'd be the first PT it'd aggro on its way back. The PT eventually followed my lead as I got killed right after unloading Eagle Eye Shot. The time it took me to take a chocobo at Kazham, the flame war started between me and the newly arrived RDM.
RDM: "?%*#!!!!! Why did you go help them?!?"
ME: "Because it would have strolled from the zone to our camp for half an hour if no one killed it."
RDM: "You ?%*#!!! If you go fight it, it WILL come to kill us after you die!!!"
ME: "Hey, if you're so afraid, why don't you zone then? It won't follow you there."
RDM: "Whatever, you're slowing down our PT with your antics! And almost got everyone killed!!!"
ME: "Between dying and coming back immediately to fight mobs, or sitting half an hour in Yuhtunga Jungle, I'd much rather take a hit and win it right back."
RDM: "It's not your business to decide if you're helping others or not. It should be up to the leader."
LDR: "Um........."
ME: "Listen, I'll go answer a Call for Help if we're not fighting or pulling a mob, okay? If you're not happy, then zone when I do, your xp will be safe."
Anyways, we got right back into getting xp and went as far as a chain #5. Glad I didn't leave the PT out of sheer frustration towards that ungrateful brat. Probably never pulled in his life anyways. But in the end, though I believe I did the right thing, I wonder if I would have had enough weight in my arguments if there wasn't enough people helping kill the goblin and it did stay near the zone in spite of my sacrifice. At least the BRD agreed with me on that argument, and we made friends over that.
I've started pulling in Yhoator Jungle last night. Thankfully, there was a PT taking on gobs from time to time near the hunting grounds, so it made my job easier. But I did had to slither past a Gob pop one time. If it had turned around, I would have bit the bullet. I kept looking back while on auto-run to make sure I didn't have it running after me. Better one death than half a dozen I always say. And a chocobo run in the Jungle is both cheap and fast, compared to being raised and waiting for weakness to wear off. I get that xp I didn't win back from the raise right as I dismount my chocobo into our camp, or in the hunting grounds if they didn't start pulling while I was away.
Still... Some people have that mentality that any xp loss is unacceptable, and aren't willing to look at the bigger picture. I don't expect people to play hero and take the fall on a bad pull every time in sensitive zones like Yhoator Jungle (and I've heard Garlaige Citadel and Crawler's Nest, haven't been there yet.) But dang it, if someone calls for help on a zoned gob, I won't stand idle knowing that it'll be coming back to kill me.