Older women?

I find that near the end of college just isn't a good time to date people in general unless you really see yourself sharing a life afterwards (I don't mean marriage, I mean having the same type of priorities). Honestly, I've become more and more hesitant to seriously date since I will be abroad half of the year next year and after that I'll be in school a 5th year to complete my second major. After that its just like I'm just going to go where the wind takes me. I could be in Japan, China, Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia or the U.S. any combination of the above and I really wouldn't expect to be in a lasting relationship unless we had the same type of priorities and weren't on the other side of the globe doing things neither of us can relate to.

This being said even if this girl were to become interested in you chances are she will have some anxiety about it being any more than that as you are just beginning your college experience and hers is coming to an end.
 
I dated a 21 year old chick with a kid when I was 15. lol
 
Just about every woman I have ever dated was older than me by a few years. The draw is the maturity level, and the experience in bed. At least to me.
 
I've dated girls that were 2-3 years older than me, and we never had a problem..And when it comes to being mature, I'm shit out of luck D: Well, With that being said, Good luck to you khidir, you're going to need it.
 
Who gives a shit?

I am 31. Earlier this year, I was dating a woman 8 years my senior. She wigged out and I eventually showed her the door (more like, she went for the door in a huff, I called her bluff and wasn't too concerned with chasing her. Boy did that piss her off). Within a month, I was bumpin uglies with a 21 year old. She was nice, but ditsy as hell, (and to be honest, the age thing really did start to be a problem for me) and eventually I stopped calling on her.

So again, who gives a shit? Age is just a number. Women are all fucked up, it doesn't matter how old they are!
 
alanon said:
So again, who gives a shit? Age is just a number. Women are all fucked up, it doesn't matter how old they are!
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QFT. You really can't say it any better than that, and most women will even back this up.
 
My favorite boyfriends have always been a bit younger because they seemed to treat a gal better. I don't know if it was the pedistal thing, or if when you are younger you still believe in chivalry or what - but ROBBING THE CRADLE FTW!!!! :) lol

If you are a mature guy, I can see why you'd dig on an older chick. Younger girls are still so insecure that they play games that are ridiculous. Not that men don't have thier issues. with every "crazy woman" alanon story, I can give you a "douchebag ex" story x's 10.

It's not a male vs. female issue, its a matter of maturity and mutual respect. 4 years is not that big of a deal once you reach your 20's (and you are nearly there). If you two get along - go for it. Life is too damned short to not try new things.
 
It's not a big deal. Be yourself. She likes you for that, right?
If you like her for who she is as well, as is with Chiimi + Sharpe, I bet you don't even notice the age.
 
In high school I dated older girls, In college I dated younger girls. Now I don't date any girls. ::shakes fist::

It doesn't matter, as long as you dig each other. It matters less when you get older, as Jender said, so just sit, smile, and have a good time.
 
My husband and I break ALL the rules.

1. We met online.
2. I had two children from a previous marriage (he's never been married before).
3. We lived in two different countries.
4. I am the major breadwinner
5. (And on topic) I am 10 years older than he is.

I was 34 and he 24 the day we met online. We've now been married for 6 years and goling strong.

Age doesn't matter near as much as a lot of other things.
 
Kiere said:
My husband and I break ALL the rules.
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Chicks who really get into MMORPG's are are still datable break all the rules too, Kiere. I mean, seriously, there are probably only about a hundred of your kind out there... *sigh
 
Excim said:
Chicks who really get into MMORPG's are are still datable break all the rules too, Kiere. I mean, seriously, there are probably only about a hundred of your kind out there... *sigh
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Which is why we rock soooo hard... :bb: <3
 
jender said:
My favorite boyfriends have always been a bit younger because they seemed to treat a gal better. I don't know if it was the pedistal thing, or if when you are younger you still believe in chivalry or what - but ROBBING THE CRADLE FTW!!!! :) lol

If you are a mature guy, I can see why you'd dig on an older chick. Younger girls are still so insecure that they play games that are ridiculous. Not that men don't have thier issues. with every "crazy woman" alanon story, I can give you a "douchebag ex" story x's 10.

It's not a male vs. female issue, its a matter of maturity and mutual respect. 4 years is not that big of a deal once you reach your 20's (and you are nearly there). If you two get along - go for it. Life is too damned short to not try new things.
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lol i think i found the answer to that question ;), I have no problem putting em on pedistals. there is a correlation between the younger men and older women though, ironically a friend told me about her relationship with a guy that was younger than her by a few years...

LoL @ me for not picking that up

thanks for the replies btw, i'll break a leg(or as gimps do it their whole body in fail) if i see her she hasnt come to my job for a few days
 
In HS, I liked older woman. In college, I liked younger women. After college, I like any women as long as they don't make me tear my hair out. Age really isn't a big deal unless there is a legality issue, which isn't your problem. I have always had better luck with younger women though for some reason. Contrary to universal belief, I am actually quite immature for my age lol Well, maybe immature is taking it too far. I was forced to grow up fast, so I was mature for my age. But I have sort of leveled off to a point where I can carry out an intelligent conversation, but still laugh at the word boobies.

Anyways, tangent over. Age doesn't really matter unless you let it matter.
 
Lanien said:
In HS, I liked older woman. In college, I liked younger women. After college, I like any women as long as they don't make me tear my hair out. Age really isn't a big deal unless there is a legality issue, which isn't your problem. I have always had better luck with younger women though for some reason. Contrary to universal belief, I am actually quite immature for my age lol Well, maybe immature is taking it too far. I was forced to grow up fast, so I was mature for my age. But I have sort of leveled off to a point where I can carry out an intelligent conversation, but still laugh at the word boobies.

Anyways, tangent over. Age doesn't really matter unless you let it matter.
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Who ever said you were mature for your age?! :(
 
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