Older women?

Kiere said:
<Very wise piece of advise> Don't wish away even one day...it goes too fast.
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Too late >_< I'm glad high school is over and went by quicker and wish the same for college...

well i've let people's minds wander about where I'm going with this....

The reason I find myself attracted to older women because I kinda act like an older person, most of my life puts me in the position to "be older" because of (nice term) environmental inconsistencies(sp?).

When I look at a girl my age, most of the time I just see a child with no woman in her, don't get me wrong I'm not excluding those around my age, it's just a big turnoff I guess. then again I ask a bit too much

Premarial sex in Islam= bad juju xD (unfortunately)
 
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Wow, so women from the ages of 16-21 are out of the question because stereotypically they carry toy-sized dogs in their purses? O.o I've only seen those in those stupid celebrity gossip mags.

I've heard of guys going for older ladies before though. But since I'm in the younger set and I don't want to date someone who can't go to a bar with me, I've been sticking to older men. But if you don't run into underage drinking issues, go for whatever attracts you. And is legal >.>;;
 
Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore seem to be working out fine. I think you may be on to something with the thought of dating an older women. Kind of always wondered why a mans sexual peak is so much earlier then a womens.
 
Dido said:
Wow, so women from the ages of 16-21 are out of the question because stereotypically they carry toy-sized dogs in their purses? O.o I've only seen those in those stupid celebrity gossip mags.

I've heard of guys going for older ladies before though. But since I'm in the younger set and I don't want to date someone who can't go to a bar with me, I've been sticking to older men. But if you don't run into underage drinking issues, go for whatever attracts you. And is legal >.>;;
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well, the attitude carries, girls around here at least are fuckin dumb, they dont know a good thing when it comes around and then when shit is goin down hill for them, dont know how it happend or why they didnt go with the good thing
 
Here are two examples I've seen as to why older women rock my socks off.


1: My friend Anna, even though her boyfriend treats her like utter shit and ignores her for the most part, continues to stay with him because "he may someday straighten out." She's 21.


2: My friend Jen once kicked a guy out of her house when she was cooking for him, because he burped and didn't excuse himself. Badass. She's 30.


I am currently working my best moves on Jen. Things aren't looking too bad either... :D
 
Excim said:
Here are two examples I've seen as to why older women rock my socks off.


1: My friend Anna, even though her boyfriend treats her like utter shit and ignores her for the most part, continues to stay with him because "he may someday straighten out." She's 21.


2: My friend Jen once kicked a guy out of her house when she was cooking for him, because he burped and didn't excuse himself. Badass. She's 30.


I am currently working my best moves on Jen. Things aren't looking too bad either... :D
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PUT IT IN HER BUTT!!

Is that legal at 30? lol j/k :D

Good luck ^^
 
Excim said:
2: My friend Jen once kicked a guy out of her house when she was cooking for him, because he burped and didn't excuse himself. Badass. She's 30.
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i freakin told her burping was a complement!!!!!
 
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This has been bothering me since this thread first started, and since it doesn't seem to be floating into the depths of obscurity anytime soon...

4 years older is not an older woman. You were in Highschool at the same time. She can't remember when you were born cause she was only 4.

10 years, yer gettin there, 15 years, kinda iffy, 20 years, ok, that's an older woman. When your 65 and she's 69, would you still call her an older woman?

Anyways. Continue.
 
age becomes less and less of an issue the older you get
 
it was clarified that 4 years wasn't much of a deal, I wasn't sure so I asked and the rest responded with more or less that it wasn't anywhere near what they were thinking when they first opened the thread. I had no idea that there were people that dated 10 years or so ;)

Dido: they aren't out of the question, the ones that fall into the stereotype i see just lack those things.

Lucki: continue with your streak of win
 
dont waste your time on a relationship...you will just get used and tossed aside in the end...
 
Temptations said:
Sounds like someone needs a /hug. =(
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i dont think a /hug or even a real hug can fix a heart that has been slowly torn to shreds for the past 3 months or so =/
 
better to have love and lost than to have never loved at all""- shakespeare(i think?)
 
Lots of bizarre stereotyping going on in this topic. Women don't magically get better at sex with age and/or experience, and even if they did that's an incredibly stupid reason to date someone. If all it took was age and experience to get good at something, the world would be full of pro athletes, actors, etc. Don't date on the premise that the girl's going to be good in the sack. If you don't like the girl in general the sex will be bad regardless of her and your own experience because you won't really like her. Might as well just be sexing your hand at that point, at least you can just roll over and go to sleep afterwards without feeling awkward or guilty that way.
 
Tok said:
i dont think a /hug or even a real hug can fix a heart that has been slowly torn to shreds for the past 3 months or so =/
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You still letting that girl get to you?

It sounds like you're learning the wrong lessons from your bad experience.
 
Kreoss said:
You still letting that girl get to you?

It sounds like you're learning the wrong lessons from your bad experience.
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i'm really trying not to let her get to me, but she keeps pulling me in and im not strong enough to ignore it
 
Tok said:
i'm really trying not to let her get to me, but she keeps pulling me in and im not strong enough to ignore it
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How can you say that relationships are a waste of time.. when clearly that's based off the fact that you can't seem to avoid some chick. You've admitted to being too "weak" (Not the right word, IMO.) to "ignore it," yet you are saying that relationships are the problem, and not just this chick? I'm seeing some excessive bias here...

Forcing a relationship is just a waste of time. If it doesn't work out on it's own (granted, SOME effort is involved.) then it's not going to work in the long run if you try to force anything. Grow up, stop wasting both parties' time, and get it over with.

(Not trying to be a dick, but you keep dwelling on this same one over and over again..)
 
Shyrra said:
How can you say that relationships are a waste of time.. when clearly that's based off the fact that you can't seem to avoid some chick. You've admitted to being too "weak" (Not the right word, IMO.) to "ignore it," yet you are saying that relationships are the problem, and not just this chick? I'm seeing some excessive bias here...

Forcing a relationship is just a waste of time. If it doesn't work out on it's own (granted, SOME effort is involved.) then it's not going to work in the long run if you try to force anything. Grow up, stop wasting both parties' time, and get it over with.

(Not trying to be a dick, but you keep dwelling on this same one over and over again..)
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i completely agree with you

i need to get over her, but i think anyone whos been crushed can say its easier said then done
 
Tok said:
i completely agree with you

i need to get over her, but i think anyone whos been crushed can say its easier said then done
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Have you seen The 40 Year Old Virgin? Do you remember the character David? Do you wanna be THAT GUY in your circle of friends? There's something to think about.
 
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