Older women?

Tok said:
i completely agree with you

i need to get over her, but i think anyone whos been crushed can say its easier said then done
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I've had to do it twice, killing a relationship with a girl I thought was perfect for me. Man up and do it.

You've been all about this chick and had a billion problems for.. I can't remember how long now.. Just get over her, lol.

lol@rappa.
 
Tok said:
i need to get over her, but i think anyone whos been crushed can say its easier said then done
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Fucking her best friend will make it a whole lot easier. Actually... that pretty much does all the work for you, and says everything you need to say! :nyam:


In all seriousness though, I don't think there is a single person here who doesn't know exactly what you are going through. That, alone, should be proof enough that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You'll get through it, and when you do, she won't get the satisfaction of knowing she turned you all emo over her.
 
Rappa said:
Have you seen The 40 Year Old Virgin? Do you remember the character David? Do you wanna be THAT GUY in your circle of friends? There's something to think about.
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mmm yea i didnt like him too much...i should definatly not become him...

Shyrra said:
I've had to do it twice, killing a relationship with a girl I thought was perfect for me. Man up and do it.

You've been all about this chick and had a billion problems for.. I can't remember how long now.. Just get over her, lol.

lol@rappa.
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i didnt even know you where following it lol but yea, its been since about july i think...wow i've been miserable over her for about half the total time we've been dating for, its funny because when we where all about each other she told me that her feelings would never change, and that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me blah blah blah its kinda sad that i bought it for so long

Excim said:
Fucking her best friend will make it a whole lot easier. Actually... that pretty much does all the work for you, and says everything you need to say! :nyam:


In all seriousness though, I don't think there is a single person here who doesn't know exactly what you are going through. That, alone, should be proof enough that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You'll get through it, and when you do, she won't get the satisfaction of knowing she turned you all emo over her.
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man that would be fuckin revenge at its finest, i dont think i could bring myself to do that though.

honestly its getting to the point where i'm getting pissed off at the shit she's pulling
 
if you slept with her, tell her you have herpes... she'll stop calling you after that
 
Khidir said:
better to have love and lost than to have never loved at all""- shakespeare(i think?)
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I always thought that was bullshit. If you don't love, you don't feel heartbreak. Some people just like to be alone.

Love is the best thing during, and the worst thing after.
 
Excim said:
...unless she says "I know, I think gave them to you." /backfire :shok:
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true... but that would cement the fact that you need to stay away from her, lol
 
Bluefrost said:
Younger guys? Thanks for the offer, but I'll have to pass. >_>
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Either I missed the sarcasm (which tends to happen with text) or Bluefrost just fell off the bitch tree. Which is odd, because she's been nothing but sweet to the people I know in game... Hmmm...


Anyway, in one post she just demonstrated the one quality in most women that I hate the most. They always assume we are after them. Last I knew, no one here said "Bluefrost Can I have it?" :wink:

You're really not like that, are yah Blue?
 
Excim said:
Either I missed the sarcasm (which tends to happen with text) or Bluefrost just fell off the bitch tree. Which is odd, because she's been nothing but sweet to the people I know in game... Hmmm...


Anyway, in one post she just demonstrated the one quality in most women that I hate the most. They always assume we are after them. Last I knew, no one here said "Bluefrost Can I have it?" :wink:

You're really not like that, are yah Blue?
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I fell off the bitch tree. :mad:

No :nyam:, but I usually tend to not go for younger guys. If I were looking, I guess I would say that they'd have to work harder to get my attention, compared to older guys.

Now that I'm getting older though, a lot of hotties are >22. >_>;
 
By the way, I wasn't flamebaiting you or anything Blue, 'cause I do like you. I just thought that was a pretty brash thing to say with no explaination to where it came from, and it seemed very uncharacteristic of you.


But I suppose, looking at some of my coworkers that are under 21... yeah... gangsta thug wannabies and "pos" Honda racer wannabies... I guess I can't blame yah. Since us guys are throwing around blanket statements, why the hell can't you, right? It's only fair.


I've never had any problems getting women to date me who are 6 ~ 10 years older than me. In fact, my girlfriend right now is 34. (I'm only 25.)
 
Excim said:
By the way, I wasn't flamebaiting you or anything Blue, 'cause I do like you. I just thought that was a pretty brash thing to say with no explaination to where it came from, and it seemed very uncharacteristic of you.


But I suppose, looking at some of my coworkers that are under 21... yeah... gangsta thug wannabies and "pos" Honda racer wannabies... I guess I can't blame yah. Since us guys are throwing around blanket statements, why the hell can't you, right? It's only fair.


I've never had any problems getting women to date me who are 6 ~ 10 years older than me. In fact, my girlfriend right now is 34. (I'm only 25.)
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Remember, I can only date people at max four year younger than me, otherwise they'd be jailbait. :cool: And by date I mean :shok:
 
Bluefrost said:
Remember, I can only date people at max four year younger than me, otherwise they'd be jailbait. :cool: And by date I mean :shok:
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Stare at each other awkwardly while you do the naughty?
 
To Rappa:

No, you're absolutely right. Age does not indeed make someone magically better in bed. The thing is, normally, an older woman dating a younger guy is generally indicative of said woman having a powerful sex drive, and dating the younger guy because she thinks he can keep up.

As said from the woman I am currently dating, "Wow, I guess a younger guy is better, normally the older dudes have one shot and they are done"

Not to be totally over-explicit, but I'm exemplifying the natural involvement here. Normally older women don't want a younger dude mainly because of the drama factor. Younger people are more dramatic, usually. However, in that rare circumstance said woman finds a pretty relaxed dude, anything can happen.

So in the end, really, I say that because the older woman is dating you by her devices, not by yours. A woman who is older than a young man who is timid in the sack probably wouldn't even glance in his direction, because she either wouldn't care, or wouldn't know any better.

But yeah, you're right for the most part.
 
Tok:

I'm not trying to be harsh, because I really do have sympathy for your situation and all, but it's been like half a year man. You first started asking for advice on QCDN (on this board) months ago, and lots of people gave you sound advice, but apparently you haven't really taken any of it, because most of us told you to just stay away from her. That's the only way to make a clean break.

You say that we can't understand unless we've been crushed ourselves, but that's just typical teenage "No one else can evar understand what I'm going through!!!!!!!!!" stuff. Trust me, there's people on this board who've had girls (and guys) rip out their hearts and eat them or something, like in Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom. People who've gone through hellacious shit, but just don't choose to talk about it or broadcast it. And most of these people have managed to move on in some form or fashion. It'll always hurt a little bit. It'll be like a healed surgery scar--even years and years later, it'll feel a bit weird to touch it. But it's not the end of your life.

This is going to sound harsh, but cut the bitch out of your life. It's really -not- that hard to do. Stop talking to her. Stop returning her calls. I remember you said you're her only friend left and that she's driven all of her other friends off, but really she's only talking to you because she -knows- you're still crazy about her. That makes you the easy, cheap source of attention. Let it end already.

Err, on-topic, I prefer older guys.
 
Kreoss said:
but really she's only talking to you because she -knows- you're still crazy about her. That makes you the easy, cheap source of attention.
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QFT

I know quite a few women that are like this, having a constant need for acceptance and attention.

Tok, your experiences with this woman will shape who you are in the end, as do all relationships your whole life, but one person should never be allowed to make or break a person. Show some self reliance buddy.


Sorry to derail the thread. :wacko:
 
Pasquale said:
I always thought that was bullshit. If you don't love, you don't feel heartbreak. Some people just like to be alone.

Love is the best thing during, and the worst thing after.
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the only girl I've been in love with, changed my whole life bud because of that simple relationship; if I hadn't met her I don't believe that I would be able to progress farther in life. It was only a friendship and she was willing to take it farther but I let her go because I didn't like who I was at the time and that I wasn't good enough for her much less anyone.
 
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