well the funeral was like jerry springer on crack, lot o tension between my aunt and his ex wife, without words even, until my aunt blew up and called them assholes for refusing to let her have a single card off of one of the flower arrangements...when she paid for half of the service it was all she asked for.
more disgusting is that we put his glasses, cigarettes, his pen and, breath mints and guitar pics with his body as he normally carried them all the time, along with his cowboys t-shirt.
His ex of 15 years past, opened the casket when we left the room and removed the items from his body. sickening whenever i think about it.
Today, I received another call, my uncle in West VA will not be making it through the night, the last of our family from there too. So my grandfather and father are heading there for the funeral...i was told i could go but i really really do not want to go to another funeral right now, i just cannot do another one so soon. The whole thing with my uncles funeral this past week was just horrible to go through and im glad its over, i dont like seeing my aunt like that and ive done every thing i can to help her get through it, ive been there the whole time and still will be.
But my mom said it comes in threes, and within two weeks thats two uncles...i cant take much more of this.
I hope that things get better for you and your family. I don't know you well but remember there's always someone that cares about you. I hope that your family gets through this okay.
