Pompidou said:
I think there are people who don't take the game seriously enough, like the thread complains about, and also people who take the game much too seriously. I agree that everyone should try to play their best, so that they aren't holding the rest of the party back. I disagree with people who think luxury items are necessary items. I also disagree with people who are too fast to throw out the term noob. There are too sides to this issue, and only those in the middle are right. Are you a total gimp? There are a lot of you. You're in the wrong. Are you an abnormally anal elitist? There are just as many of you as there are gimps. You're also wrong. That leaves about 1% of the population able to claim any high ground here. I myself have been both from time to time, sometimes simultaneously.
I hardly think I'm gimped for my level, but
You can decide for yourself. I constantly use Apple Pies and Juices, I try to keep my spell list up to date (I'm missing one BAR and one EN spell for RDM, and a few BAR spells on WHM. I'm currently farming to get them.)
As for elitist, well, consider the stories that inspiried this post:
This is with my friend Fortresspalm, a good player (IMHO.) I try to PT with him as much as I can, because then I at least have one person I can count on. We're at the dunes (of course) fighring Gobs and we get an aggro. I yell ZONE and try to keep people alive so they can run - Fort does as does one of the other players, but the PT leader (A Bard named Morious - more on him later) says "We can take it."
Well, I'm almost out of MP and of course, from keeping his stupid ass alive with chain-cure 2, I draw aggro and die on the spot. He lives because the next party over came over and cured him. I homepoint 400exp in the hole.
So we move from Whitebone Sands to D-6 and we try to take another gob and a Ghoul aggros me. Everyone's in yellow, so I say that I'll take this death - ZONE and use benediction. I, of course, die -
and they don't fucking run. They die this time.
Whats more, since I immediately went to my homepoint, he accuses me of running away and leaving them to die. :x
I call him a fucking dumbass, blist him, and disband. Did I mention that the main tank was wearing a brass harness at level 18?!
So, later on the same day, I join another party - yet another brass harness wearer at 18. I'm fairly convinced they were chinese gilsellers trying to level, because he had a level 20 WHM healing him from outside the party, and didnt speak very good english, and was just a shitty player in general - Peterli, if anyone cares. I got 2000xp in two hours (very bad, from my POV) with these douches.
These are the kind of people I get pissed at.