Many, and I mean many JP who does nothing but NMs are really an asshole that must be shot. Typical brat who should be kicked their ass into the ninth hell. It happens into normal NMs as well as HNMs. Which is sad, and annoying to say the truth. In the other MMORPGs that I played which was NA based, really at least had respect from each other. Although sometimes Drama between 2 Guilds (or LS in FFXI) happend, usually the surrounding people was mature enough to sort it out quickly. I don't see this kind of activity in FFXI. Its my 1st JP MMORPG I play and 2nd online game (first being PHantacy star online), but really I never seen such economy inbalance, high end pricks as in FFXI. Perhaps its the JP nature amoung young people I don't know.
Back to topic, I don't and will not take revenge on things that it happend to me. The moment I take action for revenge, I am lowering myself to their standards and its the last thing I want to do. I get pissed easily for some reason. Well could be because I come back from 10hour daily work... Good or Bad? Thats the person's Descision.