Shaidalyn said:
it's funny... that after Excim posted.. and I apologized.. it was over.. then people who have -no- concept on the situation had to add their 2 cents. The matter was simple, and resolved. I was not insulting Kat.. no she did not hit a nerve.. I was merely curious as to the insult she chose.. I would NEVER attack someone's parenting.. NEVER.. that's far.. far below human. I am, human, which is why I made a mistake. We do so.
Now, to those who keep pointing out various issues.. please check the flameboard rules.. and keep the "personal" (rl) issues out of this forum. No one here has any idea about anything ever mentioned about my rl aside Stirce, who obviously is blinded by his sudden hatred for me to put down straight facts.
yes, I said I was done, twice.. my err was returning due to the lies and misinformation being spread. I'm done though, this is not a winnable situation when people side with someone because it's easy to join the "winning" side. I know the truth, even Stirce, somewhere, knows the truth of it. No more needs to be said.. further posting will receive a blind eye from myself. I concede. I was in err, I admit it AND apologized. If that's not enough.. well nothing I can do.
There is more you can do. I'm not posting this from a biased standpoint. I'm going to go out on a limb here.
This game is based on reputation. All you're doing is backing into a corner, as everyone surrounds you. And you lash out, you scratch, claw, and gouge your way out. Trying to just climb over this wall of people that have you cowered into a corner. Stop. Stop fighting, Stop defending yourself.
Let them post. Let them go on. let them bash and smack you. Did they get the upper hand because you didn't get the last post in? Is that the problem? Do you really
need the last word? Let it go....Just let it go. It'll do you best to follow this plan in the end.
You can't apologize, and then turn around and try to act like your wrong actions are justifiable.Stop trying to defend yourself. You can't defend yourself if you're wrong. You accept the consequences of yoru actions. Apologizing doesn't work that way. Believe me, I
know. I've had to apologize for things far more than I'd like to. I'm really tempermental and tend to make rash decisions.
Quit trying to label this as a bandwagon. Perhaps you're just
wrong. Like you said, we're human and we're all wrong. That isn't an apology. Thats an excuse.
Apologize, hang your head low, and know you've done wrong. And when people see you are sincere and mean it, then they will accept this, and probably even try to help you.
If you can't do that, keep on keeping on with your current path. It won't end well for you, that much I can promise. I'm not attacking you. I'm telling you what Alyada already has. Perhaps even with a little time and peer counsuling you can even get forgiveness for your actions. Would that be so bad? To have to admit your wrong? and get forgiveness? It won't happen over night, so don't go thinking it's that easy. If you were really sorry you'd be willing to work for it.
Either the above applies, or, you're really just a dumb bitch.
Prove me wrong.