So mad I can hardly see straight.

[Dancingweapon]

So my freakin dad has crossed the line this time, I get it I'm not his perfect ideal of a son. I get the point that he prefers my brother over me, I get that.

But seriously when my brother goes out to a party at his friends house and no sign of him for hours. So I ring the fucking fool and ask him whats up, why he's not home? "I'm sleeping here the night". Ok that's cool... But I get told to stay up anyway just in case he comes home drunk as hell. And trust me he sounded pissed as hell anyway.

So I sit up for the night it comes to around 5AMish and I decide I can't really be bothered to seek for a pt anymore so I log off FFXI. I stay up for a bit more anyway and speak to a friend on Skype. I was waiting for my dad to get up to take the dog for a walk and wait for him to yell at me for being awake so late. But this time he decided to lay in.

So I got to bed, at around 6AMish. Obviously I'm not gonna wake up until much later anyway. So I wake up at like 4PM to find all the power in my room cut. Thinking hmmm wtf I go and ask my mum whats up with the power? She says "I don't wanna get involved with you two anymore". My fucking dad took the fuse out of my room when I had been told by my aunt to stay up anyway.

He gets back from wherever and I ask when can I have my power back. He flips off the wall at me saying how I'm obsessed and all this other crap. I pretty much attack him (verbally). So I ask him how I get my power taken away and my brother gets no punishment for not even coming home. Hell we would not even know if I never called him. And my fucking aunt ignores the whole thing even tho she TOLD me to stay up.

I ask him why is he acting like a parent now after all these years and told him he's failing at it because he's so new to it. Then he goes to fucking hit me but I shoved a chair at the fucker before he even got close. I called him a worthless piece of shit and spat at him then blocked off my door in my room.

I realised I overreacted but my mum actually said "Thank you, I've never said it but always hated being the only parent in a 2 parent family". And to think I actually feel bad using this fuckers visa to buy all my shit, I swear if I was more of a man I'd have stabbed him by now.

 

[Celvantes]

1) If you over 18 - it's time to move out.

2) Unless it's a joint account, they should not be using your credit card. Put a lock on the damn thing if you have to. Other people here have gotten their credit messed up by their parents.

I'm sorry to hear that, Dancing.

 

[Dancingweapon]

1) If you over 18 - it's time to move out.

2) Unless it's a joint account, they should not be using your credit card. Put a lock on the damn thing if you have to. Other people here have gotten their credit messed up by their parents.

I'm sorry to hear that, Dancing.

1) Nope 16

2) It's me using his credit card.

 

[Dani]

Get a job, get a bank account, save your money and stay out of your dads way. It may be the only way to keep your sanity. It's going to kill you to hold your tongue sometimes but just steer clear of him. Two years seems like forever but it has to go by eventually.

I hated, no loathed, my stepfather growing up. He did some horrible things that I don't forgive him for to this day. There were times when I thought out how I was going to physically hurt him if he kept treating me like shit. Instead, I got a job at 15 so that I'd never have to be home. I saved my money, got a car and moved out shortly after my 19th birthday. Now I have my own home with my boyfriend and never have to see my stepfather if I don't want to. I can tell him to fuck off when he pisses me off and the worst he can do is...nothing, because he doesn't control anything in my life anymore.

I wish you the best and hope you get past this.

 

[Excalibur]

Beat the ever loving shit out of him and put him in a hospital. He won't mess with you after that.

If you're too small for that, then yeah, getting the fuck outa there is your only option. Get a job and get emancipated. A job AND school will suck balls though. I'd rather deal with a dead-beat dad that treats me like shit than go through that again to be honest. Keeping your grades up is important though.

I had a friend with a similiar problem in highschool. They dealt with it by pretty much never being home. They'd go to school, stuff their nose in books doing homework at the library after school, then go hang out with friends for the rest of the night until it was time for bed. OR hang out with friends right after school until it was time for dinner at home, then after dinner go to their room and do homework until bed. I guess you could always give that a try.

 

[Princemercury]

Is your father mentally stable?

 

[Dancingweapon]

As much as I hate him, he is mentally stable. I can just get him mad quick. And he decided to go away for a few days.

 

[Celvantes]

Get a job, get a bank account, save your money and stay out of your dads way. It may be the only way to keep your sanity. It's going to kill you to hold your tongue sometimes but just steer clear of him. Two years seems like forever but it has to go by eventually.

I hated, no loathed, my stepfather growing up. He did some horrible things that I don't forgive him for to this day. There were times when I thought out how I was going to physically hurt him if he kept treating me like shit. Instead, I got a job at 15 so that I'd never have to be home. I saved my money, got a car and moved out shortly after my 19th birthday. Now I have my own home with my boyfriend and never have to see my stepfather if I don't want to. I can tell him to fuck off when he pisses me off and the worst he can do is...nothing, because he doesn't control anything in my life anymore.

I wish you the best and hope you get past this.

This is your best option - trying to physically dominate him will only get you arrested or worse. Job + school sucks, but if you can handle that, you can handle anything.

Getting established on your own two feet gives you freedom, and there is no price you can put on that. All the time and effort in the world are worth having control of your own life.

Best of luck to you.

 

[Hexx]

Its gonna be a pain to deal with the guy, but until you can do things on your own without depending on him, youre gonna have to stand his shit. Egging him on by fighting back is only gonna make things worse dude, so if he keeps doing shit to piss you off, just ignore him! Assholes like him feed off of the attention and knowing that they pissed you off. You ignoring him will only anger him even more but on the inside!

 

[Sharpe]

Beat the ever loving shit out of him and put him in a hospital. He won't mess with you after that.

Don't listen to Exacalibur, it's not worth a prison sentence or hours of lolcommunity service. Spitting at anyone is disgusting and it's not going to help matters. Best thing is to stay out of his way, not give him any reason to be pissed off at you and move out at any opportunity (I know over here it's damn hard till your 18).

 

[Kelyon]

Bleh, sorry to hear that man. I am in the same boat with you with my parents. I know it sounds like it couldn't be, but it could be a lot worse. I remember when my parents actually attacked my bank account. Took 600 bucks from me. If you ever need to vent, PM me i am a good listener. Good luck mate.