O_O;; i whatsit? you? NEVER... i mean,god aedin, you posted a flame thread on me and you expect me not to be bitter about it? i admitted you became and excellent rdm by the end, did i not? or did you just fail to read that far into it... as per normal... my "overnuking" wasn't actually that bad even from an ubiased standpoint... ask seig, he knows he had so tank issues at the begining and at the end i rarely pulled aggro except when mara's SATA misfired... which in itself was rare.
i'll take the imp part as a compliment though... wuv you too Aed... any idea how long it took me to come to grips with the fact you were a guy? i swear for the first 2 or 3 months of you being on the ls i thought you were a girl just from the way you spoke... 'course i thought jita was too... :? I never wanted to have wasted that understanding by starting a war with you... don't take it so personal, it's obviously a joke... learn to smile

, laugh :lol: even...
and pascal, yes, the majority of us NA players are... we just don't take the party seriously enough... i was in a pt where the Sam used icarus wings and shogun rice balls... they used more in items that party than my armor was worth i'm sure... and unless you wanna spring for vampire juice nothing is quite as nice as refresh... most notably i had problems with this in my post-static times with crabs... Crabs take a lot of mp to kill and the melees have real issues with them... if the blm doesn't get refresh (normally bottom of the refresh chain) and whm doesn't (varies on mp, tanking type and how far into the chain you are) then A) the mob isn't dieing any time soon but B) the party is...
Being elvaan has nothing to do with being a bad rdm, they just seem to go hand in hand a lot because there is a
BIG trend of elvaan rdms (emphasis on big)... their mp, limited even more than hume or mith as it is, is DEVASTATED with the cost of keeping a high-casting party going...
Chpal is still the #1 rdm i partied with... along with Vair... the man who uses no swords... yay chpal!
Refresh i know isn't the only thing but it's the top priority and the reason you get a place in parties... I offer you a challenge, put something in your search comment to the effect of
i don't refresh others.... See how many invites you have... Enfeebs are nice but between an ungimped whm and an ungimped blm (not me, my enfeebling is about 75 from its cap

) can land most of the mainstream party enfeebles... So it wouldn't have gravity... Most rdm don't wait for me to burn and shock the mob and their crap doesn't land... I'm gimped because all anyone expects from me are shock frost burn drown choke rasp... If you won't keep refresh up, you're a liability... at least on the whm.. whm and pld... i can manage... i've found a yag drink source who discounts them for me and i use them now if i'm missing... Though a lot of rdms get insulted at that... :? they say using juices is like telling them you don't trust them to do their job. if i say i didn't and brought juices expecting that, knowing the kind of person who plays rdm (and yes, there is a definate feel to people who play te job mainjob) they'd get childish about it and be an asshat for the remainder of the party (not everyone is childish but heck, it happens, some of these people ARE children...) ...
Also, lets face it, everyone who casts should have Echo drops JIC... this is more than just the rdm is expected to here... that's like asking why don't you just refresh only OTHER people and use juice yourself... it don't work... refresh self is a job perk ^_^ i understand that.
Nobody picks up rdm for your melee damage... face it, if they wanted a melee DD they'da picked up a war/nin or a MONK (WOOOT!!!! MONKS OWN)
Stand back, put the AF1 down, whip out a club with massive int boost or a staff of the spell's element and cast... i accept crimson blade very cautiously, but it isn't as good as the elemental stave OR the 7 or so int you could be getting with the int/mnd boost series club at that point. they clubs ar cheap, there is no excuse to cast black magics on int +5 when you could hav int +7. none. you expect good blms to carry a staff for each element. i expect a good rdm to have int... a lot of comprimising occurs... i only have 3

right now but i'm working on that.
And a note to my last party's rdm... no names here... YOU BONEHEADED NUMBSKULL.... the Dark Knight is LAST on ANY and ALL refresh orders... I AM NOT AFTER A BLOODY FREAKING USELESS NEVER-HIT-TWICE-IN-A-ROW Drk when i'm battling crabs... his int was like 4... using his mp use was a waste... the crab resisted his spells.
My true solace was found at 55 with bards who have AOE refresh... With 2 ballads up it equals refresh and never have to worry about an order... Where are all the bards?