Confidence is more how you act rather than how you look. There is more to a person than how they look, so work on all aspects. You could simply be a person who build thin muscles. I have seen scrawny men able to lift heavy things. Rather than bulk up, your body may just strengthen what is there into strong iron. Just do things that make you happy. People like to be around other people who are happy. As you get older the thickening out thing will happen on it's own.
I just speak the truth, and I think that needs to be heard. There's more reliable information for him in that sub forum, where it's free of being critiqued by those who have no business critiquing. XD
What pic are you talking about? All I see is Carrotdouche.
I have business replying :/ I don't have access to the other forum.
He did want opinions. And now he's getting more focused ones, thatare addressing his questions more appropriately. I'm not saying all information in here is worthless, but much of it is, and I don't want an old friend taking poor advice. The general public is never a real good source of accurate information anyway, which he knows. No offense to you, but I didn't post here to begin with just to avoid having to discuss this topic with most of the folks that chose to involve themselves. It's just a runaround. Hell, you brought up one of the best pieces of advice in here Cheebs. "Listen to your body." So there is some solid and good information, but I just wanted him to be able to understand the good from the bad, and in an environment where he can really feel comfortable talking about this stuff.
I agree 100%.
I only offered what I felt was viable advise otherwise an extreme example of what Mire had posted. Ultimately I take the question seriously and I hope everyone does.
I did butthead, it hasn't been approved yet >.<
I'm asking this question to QCDN rather than to professionals because I think some of you might be, or might have been in a similar boat. Here we go. I'm tired of being scrawny. I'm around 5'10 and only 125lbs. For several months now, I've been driven on self improvement - career, social life, etc. I don't want to be who I was. Joining a gym is a logical course of action. I don't want to be a body builder. To be honest, my goal is "normal". Granted, there's no exact definition of normal, except that I'll know it when I see it. I just don't aim to be a steroid popping wall of rock and sinew. Just want to get as attractive as my genes will allow, and hopefully maintain.
So, with the background out of the way, here's the question. Creatine. I hear so much good about the stuff, and on the flipside, so much bad. I did my homework before making my thread here, and am familiar with what the top pertinent google results have to say. It's the side effects that worry me. Has anyone used the stuff? I want to speed up the progress of my workout in every safe and legal way. Both of those qualifiers are important. I won't use steroids, even though I was offered. Companies like GNC offer a lot of supplements that seem to come close, and I don't know where to begin. Creatine seems like the strongest and most effective supplement short of steroids, but the side effects seem daunting. I've read everything from kidney stones to nonstop diahreah to cramps and tissue damage in the legs.
If anyone here has tried workout supplements, you have my complete attention. I'll trust real people here more than professionals on specialty fitness sites. Good results? Bad results?
How about Beef Curtains?
Nvm...
Thanks - these are all great suggestions. If it matters, my aim isn't self defense. My biggest muscle is my friendliness. I'm actually about as bad as a guy can get in terms of meeting women. Before I decided to work out, I decided I wanted to be more social. I can't do that if I'm a circus freak. I want to look good for confidence and for women. I'm 30 and not getting any younger. That's my motivation for all of this. I can't make women I like lower their standards. I'm gonna have to raise myself to theirs.