The Help Kelyon Thread because he needs his own thread.

i'm sorry that it didnt work out for you, honestly you should feel lucky that you had something that special with another person, man what i would give to feel that way again...after i got burned for the second time all i can feel nowadays is anger for some reason...

this should go to show that it doesnt matter who you love or what your orientation, but that you can share something like that with another human being

ps. if this was addressed to me, i would take you back =P
 
"really really close friends" code for - "friends with benefits"?

Sounds like Kel is more emotionally attached than physically so that probably wouldn't be a good idea anyway, it would further the attachment and give more hope that they will get back together.

For now, just be there for him. Don't try to win him back necessarily because sometimes it comes off as desperate. I had to end a friendship with an ex for that reason.

You know where I am if you want to chat :)
 
Sounds like Kel is more emotionally attached than physically so that probably wouldn't be a good idea anyway, it would further the attachment and give more hope that they will get back together.

For now, just be there for him. Don't try to win him back necessarily because sometimes it comes off as desperate. I had to end a friendship with an ex for that reason.

You know where I am if you want to chat :)

Thanks Mirepants. You are an awesome person <3
 
To the point of bashing my fucking head against the wall. HE IS SO i dont fucking know. He tells me he loves me, he says no as a friend. Then he talks about how me misses his ex. I just don't know what he fucking wants for me. I am there as his friend. He is just so lost and i am confused. I don't know what to do. I plan to talk to him later tonight
 
More slumps:

For the past week i have just been in a slump. I am just so stressed out and my anxiety is through the roof. It is not so much my ex, i am pretty much over that. Just everyday activities seem to put me into a crazed state. I talked to my doctor to see if i can get on a benzo, have yet to hear from him. Sadly again i am falling into the "i wanna die" states. I don't know if it is school, home or what. Ugh.
 
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