Shyrra, seriously, what the hell, man?
You're making a giant stink over absolutely nothing. You didn't even get a slap on the wrist, you got the threat of a slap on the wrist the next time you break the rules and posting standards as set by the mods.
Nothing says the mods have to be nice to you WHEN YOU BREAK THEIR RULES. You acted inappropriately, and got called down for it in a manner befitting what you did. Judging by your comments, probably nicer than you would have had the situation been reversed. That's just speculation though.
All the mods, Miros and Dino especially, work tirelessly to improve this site, and attract more of an active playing population (ya know, since QCDN is a FFXI forum after all), and it's behaviour like yours that ruins nearly everything they try to do, and probably makes them question why they bother when their users act in such a manner. You wanna know what I hear about QCDN in game? "Stay away, it's a shithole", "Don't go there, it's not worth it", and even I can't recommend most of the boards. It's because of people like you that QCDN gets that sort of reputation, and Miros (among others) is trying to change that. But even if he gets 1 step forward in his goal, it's crap like this that sets him 10 feet back. Had you posted on the Bananaphone boards, with the same message, no one would care. In the FB, no one would really care. In the Lounge under certain circumstances, no one would care. But no, you had to go and do it in Meet & Greet, the first place a new user posts, and the public face of the board. Personally, I'm surprised you're not on read only or banned for a month or two, or EVER. But what happened to you? *ta-daaaaa* NOTHING. And you're complaining about it.
And if you think you're being treated unfairly, or don't like how the mods here handle things, leave! No one's forcing you to stay. If you ask me, you're acting like a spoiled brat. You broke the rules, acted inappropriately, and mods aren't happy with you. Own up to it.