Ok today I got a tell from someone called Ayriana which asked me if I could help her get Carbuncle Mittens. I didn't know her to good but sometimes you just think eh wth I can help. I know how hard it was for me to get them. Anyway there were another one in the party which also needed these mittens and her name was Lyrai (By the way I thought you forgot to say thank you before you blisted me).
Anyway moving on. We were fighting the NM when lyrai said she quit Summon because she never got any invites and if she created a pt people tend to leave so I thought Can it really be that bad? Atleast I've never noticed it so I told her that it will be better once you reach 60 and you can MB also and not only heal.
Thats when she told me that she refused to heal in parties. I usually encurage people to do their own "thing" but I also thought well that explains why you don't get as much invites because SMN is officially a healer and after lvl60 it can be both healer and MBer if lack of other job. So I told her straight out something like this "lol when then it's not very strange that you don't get as much pt invites since people in genereal expect you to heal" then she dais something like "Don't you dare say anything like that to me" and I was all like wth is up with this person? Is she so spoiled so she cannot even accept simple facts? Everyone gotta do her bidding all the time? So I thought the last thing she needed was for me to not say anything because if that continued she could develop a personality disorder or something
So thats when I told her that you cannot blame me for the game that SE made and she kept telling me that it wasnt SE's fault but the players who didn't understand and I actually agreed but still I said that people expect you to be a healer and if you are not you will not get invites.
She got mad and I asked her why because I didn't think that I have insulted her in anyway and then she said that I HAD in fact insult her.
From that point I found it meaningles to talk in party window because others shouldent have to hear this. So here is the chat we did in /tell
All I got to say is that I was shocked... this person had obviously not for any at all intention to try and solve this instead she seemed to actually want to have someone to mock and push down so they feel bad. Well that do NOT work on me.
Can anyone tell me if I did anything wrong? I mean should I accepted all her demands of shuting up which to me is an insult. I can honestly say that if the same situation happend again I would do the exact same thing and I do NOT think that I did anything to deserve getting blisted.
I know that I don't have any screenshot of the party chat because it had dissapeard since we fought the mittens NM again before I got the idea to screenshot what she said. But it doesnt matter since everyone in the party saw it. I'm not gonna give away any names but if they wanna come out and talk about it please do. I am telling the truth.
The reason I did this thread was NOT to have her "un-blist" me, I don't care about that at all if she is so stupid and blist me because SMN act as Healers then I will never be able to have any normal conversation with her anyway. The reason I did this thread was because I did not think that I was treated with the respect I deserve and I want people to know about this person, if you act like an asshole you have to face the consequences! I just do not take shit and then keep it in my hand. I throw it back!
Anyway moving on. We were fighting the NM when lyrai said she quit Summon because she never got any invites and if she created a pt people tend to leave so I thought Can it really be that bad? Atleast I've never noticed it so I told her that it will be better once you reach 60 and you can MB also and not only heal.
Thats when she told me that she refused to heal in parties. I usually encurage people to do their own "thing" but I also thought well that explains why you don't get as much invites because SMN is officially a healer and after lvl60 it can be both healer and MBer if lack of other job. So I told her straight out something like this "lol when then it's not very strange that you don't get as much pt invites since people in genereal expect you to heal" then she dais something like "Don't you dare say anything like that to me" and I was all like wth is up with this person? Is she so spoiled so she cannot even accept simple facts? Everyone gotta do her bidding all the time? So I thought the last thing she needed was for me to not say anything because if that continued she could develop a personality disorder or something
So thats when I told her that you cannot blame me for the game that SE made and she kept telling me that it wasnt SE's fault but the players who didn't understand and I actually agreed but still I said that people expect you to be a healer and if you are not you will not get invites.She got mad and I asked her why because I didn't think that I have insulted her in anyway and then she said that I HAD in fact insult her.
From that point I found it meaningles to talk in party window because others shouldent have to hear this. So here is the chat we did in /tell
All I got to say is that I was shocked... this person had obviously not for any at all intention to try and solve this instead she seemed to actually want to have someone to mock and push down so they feel bad. Well that do NOT work on me.
Can anyone tell me if I did anything wrong? I mean should I accepted all her demands of shuting up which to me is an insult. I can honestly say that if the same situation happend again I would do the exact same thing and I do NOT think that I did anything to deserve getting blisted.
I know that I don't have any screenshot of the party chat because it had dissapeard since we fought the mittens NM again before I got the idea to screenshot what she said. But it doesnt matter since everyone in the party saw it. I'm not gonna give away any names but if they wanna come out and talk about it please do. I am telling the truth.
The reason I did this thread was NOT to have her "un-blist" me, I don't care about that at all if she is so stupid and blist me because SMN act as Healers then I will never be able to have any normal conversation with her anyway. The reason I did this thread was because I did not think that I was treated with the respect I deserve and I want people to know about this person, if you act like an asshole you have to face the consequences! I just do not take shit and then keep it in my hand. I throw it back!
