What did I do wrong?! (Lyrai)

Uzor said:
Yeah well thats funny because I've also heard being elvaan makes it impossible to heal since their MND suck so much it should be really bad combined with the job with most mp pool of all. Totally see your point.
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false =/ Elvaan have the highest MND =/
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Read the text again, It was sarcasm ; ;
 
Lyrai said:
Be glad you've done this to me, you've won, you've made me break down and cry and truely hurt inside because I try to be myself.
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First of all, I do not see this as any kind of Victory, it just saddens me. But maybe Quetzalcoatl know to well about you now. It will be hard to turn that around. People got their opinions already, they are shallow without knowing it, I can be to sometimes.
I can agree that you have taken enough shit but not all were without reason, and I can agree that you got a hard time in your life right now and I wish I could help about that but I cannot. But fact is. You say that you try to be yourself. Well since I am so good at explaining obvious things let me explain another. If your personality is to be angry and piss people of it is not strange people hold their distance. If you yell and get furious over slightest disliking it is not strange why people get mad at you in the game. If your personality is all hatred I strongly sugest that you talk to someone, and I am Not saying this as your enemy! If you are crying, which might not be strange because I would probably have cried too if people told me some of the things I heard here on this thread only and for what I've heard there is more to pick, anyway if you are crying I want you to think for what reason. Is it because other people treated you bad or because You made them like that? I think you can be a very nice person as long as you don't go of on people like that whenever/wherever. It scares people away.

I know I said another one of those "obvious" statements right now but even though you know why this all happend, maybe you should sit down and think about why sometime aswell. Do you want to see people happy? Try and make them happy. If you suceed I promise you will be happier aswell and that Will reflect your RL instead of RL reflecting the game. Geesh now I sounds like you have never helped a person in your life and I am sure you have but you have to understand what I mean. If someone tell you "Hey, why did you say that for?" maybe you should sit down and think about why you really said it. He/she might not deserve it.
 
I can not stand people like Lyrai. Their world is crashing around them, its everyone elses fault, they are incapable of doing anything for themselves, and want nothing more than everyone to pity them. That attitude rubs me the wrong way everytime I see someone pull it. :? Everything is some mental issue or emotion that you say you have no control over, yet that is your very being. If you can't control that, no wonder you feel so helpless in your other activities. I delt with depression once. Medicine didn't make it better. Realizing I was too focused on pitying myself and feeling helpless to do anything about it was my first step to solving it. Shit happens, do something about it instead of crying and feeling sorry for yourself.

Call me mean if you want, but neither that nor giving her pity will improve her situation.
 
Feeling sorry for yourself and expecting it to get people to do things for you, stand up for you, or change their opinions is bullshit.

We play a video game. We don't care what's going on in your real life, and you are not going to get anything back from bitching about it.

Want to know what happened in the past few months of my life? Let's see: my cousin was murdered (hung with a belt), my uncle died from a sudden liver failure, he was in so much pain they had to put him in a drug induced coma where he died a few days later without anyone being able to tell him goodbye, a great aunt died because of a drunken driver, my parents declared bankruptcy, I had to sell my car, my sister and her husband both lost their jobs and have two kids to support, etc, etc.

Can anyone help me get Fenrir? I think I might quit if I can't have Fenrir since Fenrir is ALL that matters and will solve all of my problems.

Granted, this wasn't all at once, but I'm not feeling sorry for myself. Everyone is responsible for their own actions and should not ever expect random third parties to help them out because out of guilt or from threats (I'm quitting, wah wah wah).
 
is this still going on? please people, let this die, when you drag a flame out too long it just makes you look petty and dumb... there's nothing more to say than has already been said already, can we all drop the topic and move on?

*note* the contents of the following are my opinion on personal flames altogether not just applying to this thread...

And here's my two cents worth... i've been playing this game for a long time... I've met many people in my ls's and in parties that seemed like OK or cool people. maybe not the brightest at times but not at all bad at heart... then i log in here and see a flame about them or something like that. mostly it seems to be one or two bad encounters out of 10,000 interactions with other players every day people come in here and rant and trash talk and never let die. how well do you know these people? what right do you really have to come and insult others, especially if they don't come here. that's going behind their backs as far as i'm concerned, going behind their backs and spreading malicious gossip that might destroy someone experiences with this game.

it's not enough to say what you think to their faces, you have to go and brag about what you said and try and turn the whole server against these people by making the readers feel there is something wrong with the person and perhaps something wrong with thinking otherwise. that's about as low and petty as it gets, the whole flameboard and concept of flaming people is vile, childish and petty and promotes prejudice towards others and prevents people from having a chance at giving an unbiased first impression.

Why can't people just grow up? if a five year old read this thread and chose not to post about how "people like...." ruin this game for them, they'd be wiser and more mature than most any of us myself included.

~fin
 
I'm on her blacklist too, pissed her off months ago.
 
I completely don't agree with Lyrai's attitude with:
Lyrai said:
Be glad you've done this to me, you've won, you've made me break down and cry and truely hurt inside because I try to be myself. Might as well just give away my account to someone, but I won't post here anymore, why bother. Probably won't have access to a computer much longer anyway.
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I could go on and on about the underlying meaning behind that quote, though I'm sure someone else already has too.


But lay off already.
 
So you know, I really don't have control over my life, I'm only 16. I'm an only child, and I can assure you, I don't post these things here to get attention or pitty, it's the last things I want. I mean honestly, before this, did I post anything about my life on the forums here? No, I didn't.

We all have problems, I'm more than aware of that. But BECAUSE of that, you should be a little more understanding. Ever heard the saying "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all"?

I've tried to be optimistic, but I can't do it all the time, no one can. If everyone could, wouldn't the world be a happier place?

I don't expect people to do things for me, if I need help, I'm right there beside whoever decides to help me.

And also, my personality isn't mean or angry in the least. I'm quiet, soft-spoken kid who sits in the back of the class and reads. Half the people that see me every day don't even know my name. I'm the kind of person a lot of people have come to talk to. But I'm human, I'm not perfect, I DO get angry sometimes, and you rip my heart out for it.

Most of your advice here comes from the "If you did this, the world would be perfect" attitude. It's not real life stuff, regardless of how good a person I am (And I'm not a bad person in the least) this kind of shit gets pulled on me.

Only thing I'm grateful for here, is no one pulled the religion card on me.

Thank you, and goodnight.
 
You keep trying to turn this into a pity party, but frankly I don't give a damn about what you do/don't do IRL. I have to play a game with ya, and hopefully you don't spoil it for me.

You can live your life anyway you want, it's not my business nor my concern. If you act like an idiot in the game, you can expect me to call you on it.
 
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