A lot of guy gamers scare me because once you stop talking about games they have no idea what to do with you.
Trick is to find a guy who isn't a gamer, but plays many video games. Such as your truly! <.<
But seriously, I know what you mean. I've met a few guys who, when it comes to women, are just like, "Huh? Wha? Girls... nah... they got a screwy D-Pad."

Sometimes it's funny, other times it make me sad for them.
For instance, girl I'm "seeing", went out on a date with some guy a few weeks ago. He was a shy, nerdy, video games & role playing in mom's basement type. I give him props for asking, but it was doomed to failure. She tried to be polite, she's very well read, so she asked what books he's read lately.
"Well... I don't read much. Last book I read was Planet of the Apes."
"Oh? Well... I remember reading Lord of the Rings when I was younger. Great book."
"You like Lord of the Rings?!"
All downhill from there.
She called me while I was at work to tell me about the date. I laughed so hard that the customers started to stare... <.<