Let's offer some context here. I was talking about Reeve. The only entity on this site with the proper permissions to elevate anyone, and he went absent for god-knows-how-long except to come in, say something about Skyrim and accidentally lock the thread (how does one even *do* that?), unlock it, and WAM gone again.
Proper permissions to elevate anyone? Don't you mean change their status to mod or admin? Any admin could have done that unless you are talking about wanting consent from Reeve first that's different. If it's just the admin permissions though Misi did have that.
As for you, alls I got to go on is a PM on Facebook from May 4 somehow..explaining yourself and your choices, a follow-up the very next day saying "man I must have really pissed you off if you're not replying!", and then next thing I know, I'm out of Miros's life forever. I thought we were done when all that bullcrap went down, so why would I bother pursuing it? You seemed to have a full-on mental breakdown surrounding a forum, a forum which you'd told me repeatedly was more pain than it was worth. Misi and I felt you were done, so we left it at that.
You thought we were done? Don't you think by sending you a facebook message to explain what happened and other things would be an indication that we weren't done? ;x The feeling I got after sending you those FB messages (which you are right, within the span of two days) and then checking the next day to see that I was defriended made me think that we weren't really friends at all and that since I was out of QCDN equation why keep in contact. Misi kept in contact, I have talked to her several times since then.
As for Misi, she left because she never wanted to run this site. She never asked to, it was thrown in her lap. She had other events in her own life dictating her time, so she gave it up outright. Who can blame her? She did it cordially, she even tried repeatedly to contact Reeve in an effort to leave some support behind. No replies? BIG GODDAMN SURPRISE THERE. So she let it be.
I really don't want to bring Misi into this too much but she could have always upped someone else (ie you or anyone else who wanted to) before leaving.
As for me? There hasn't been much to do except til a week ago when I got a PM from Audino saying "holy shit man I got nostalgic, what happened here?" I have literally *just* started a new job after being laid off, and I still have a very young son to raise and a wife trying to break into the comic writing/artistry industry. It's taxing enough, without having to worry about trying to run a site of....five or six active users.
Hey, Dino is my wifebitch keep your hands off him/her.
Well for one congrats on the new job! Hopefully it's better than the old one. Hope your son and wife are doing awesome as well!
I'm all for someone having full administratorship of QCDN, and it not being Reeve. It will not be me, because I don't want it.
As I said when I became a moderator, I'll do it til either I feel like I can't do it anymore, or til the users call for my head on a plate. I maintain that to this day.
So there we have it. No misinformation, no rumors. You just thought that every word I said was about you, when it wasn't.
Well glad somethings have been cleared up!
Sidebar: yes, you (Miros) were still in my friends list on PSN at least two weeks ago when our PS3 still worked.
I just checked my Ps3 and you both are still there. :O
Furthermore, if this is the truth, and you actually *did* buy the site outright, and didn't tell any of us current staffers, that makes me even more mad.
Why do I think it's not true? Because there literally is no record, on my end, that shows you telling us. And if you'd told any other current staffers (I say current, I mean Misi, myself, Morwen, or Meikolia, the last bit of staff before you left) they'd have shared the information with the rest of us. We used to be transparent with each other like that.
OKAY JUST FOR THE RECORD I WAS MESSIN' WITH Y'ALL. I'M NOT REEVE. I just wondered how many people actually thought I was.
Why does it irritate me more? Because it shows how little trust you actually had in staff.
Okay this is bugging me a little bit right here, not because of what you said but just because of the general attitude I've gotten from people. Yeah, I up and left the site and I left because I was under the impression that the staff that was there and active could actually take care of whatever happened ahead and could make decisions on their own. C'mon let's be honest, all I ever did on this site was pretty it up and then fuck things up usually by tampering with things that weren't broken. But I definitely had enough trust in all of you to believe that even though I threw a tantrum and left that it was left in good hands. Believe me, there was no lack of trust.
The whole thing is ridiculous.
A-fucking men. Praise Jesus.
Also, I just now read where you said I'd removed you from my FB. I don't think I've ever removed *anyone* from mine. Even during that stupid "Culling Day" or whatever people tried to trend up in '09.
Far as I know, I've only ever been removed by three people. My own brother, when he deleted his account YEARS ago, his wife, when she went on a tantrum this year, and (evidently) you, for reasons that I thought were obvious to me.
I will admit, I have removed quite a few people from my FB. Mainly people who I used to know in CT that were drama llamas, but not you.
I'd still love an explanation for the freak out in which you RO'd me for saying "Okay...." in an attention whore thread and then took off.
You'll never get a good explanation. I was probably pissed that day and you were the lucky target of my anger cause I thought you were trolloling. Let's be honest, you troll people and enjoy doing it so don't act all innocent.
Then once I realized I messed up I decided to leave. I dunno, I don't think what I did was wrong.
Maan the only active thread in almost a year and it turns into salt wars.
I think I'm gonna resub again. Give me something to do.
Someone join me.
Can I rub your nipples?
