Betrayal, and all that may come of it.

Lecan

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I contemplated not making this post, in fact, I almost wasn't going to. I thought however, that I have made a few friends here on QCDN, and that I might let you guys know before you don't see me again.

My mother gave my sister some antidepressants a few days ago (stupid idea, you should never take someone elses medication), because my sister hadn't seen her doctor yet to get hers reperscribed. Everyone thought, no big deal. 2 days ago, my sister was caught in school with these pills in her purse.

A little background info now:

I used to smoke pot. I quit about 2 months ago, and this past weekend out of boredom I decided to pick up a bag and have a little fun. My sister asked if she could smoke with me (this wasn't her first time smoking, so I didn't think it was a huge deal) and so we smoked together, once. At no time did I give her any, all of it stayed in my room, and not once was it out of my sight.

Along with the pills they found in my sisters purse, they also found some marijuana residue. Most likely either from her boyfriend, or herself, leaving some in the purse.

The police were called, and my sister was given a 5 day suspension from school. The next day, my sister had to go to the police department.

My mother and sister go the police department, and when the police asked her how it got there......

MY MOTHER AND SISTER TOLD THE POLICE THAT IT WAS MINE!!!!!!!!!

Yes, my mother and sister, despite my not being involved in this situation AT ALL, in a complete act of cowardice told the police that it was mine. Today at about 10am, I have to go to the police station. More than likely, it will be something like 2 years probation and a fine. A fine I really don't have the money to pay for, as I'm trying to get an at home business started, and I'm already 100$ short on starting it up (I was going into it with a friend, and he was going to provide half the money, me the other half. And now, it's nothing illegal).

The fine alone is enough to shut that idea down. However, becuase my mother and sister told hte police that, they have probable cause to search my house, and give me drug tests. I'm not exactly sure of the drug laws at the moment ( I used to be, but things have been changing recently), but I could very well end up in jail. Possibly for dealing, if they manage to twist this in a way that could prove that I 'sold' some to my sister.

This is a complete act of cowardice on my mother and sisters' part. When I smoked pot, I was willing and fully prepared to take any consequences brought around if I got caught. Which is why I'm not running or lying about it at all. I didn't expect my mother and sister however, to completely cop out (excuse the pun), and instead of accepting the responsibility for their problems they pointed the finger at me. This is complete bullshit, let me tell ya.

So, I just wanted to let you people, my perceived friends, that I may not be around for a while. I wish you all luck, and I pray that your family never betrays you in such a way.
 
Update for those who could give two shits:

Went to the police station today. They tried all their normal intimidation bullshit. Threatening me with jailtime and whatnot. They were going to try to pin me with 'Endangering the welfare of a child', unless I named names....

No, I did not name names. I told the officer straight out, that I consider myself a person of honor, and for me to do start dropping names out of cowardice is something I refused to do. They reiterated their offer, saying that I would serve jailtime if I didn't comply, and I told them I would not.

So, they bitched out. Basically they're giving me immunity if I help them with something (pretty much classified info, can't speak on it or the offer is invalid) and I'm getting off scott free. My mother and sister however, well...they can consider themselves dispwned.
 
edit: gah, double post. Damn QCDN is slow today.
 
Wow, thats really shitty. I'm sorry to hear about all that Lecan, it couldn't have happened to a nicer guy. :( I hope everything works out and you don't get into too much trouble. Did you try "Charm" on the police officers? heheh
 
{I'm Sorry} :cry:

I would feel pretty betrayed if my family sold me out...is your sister younger than you? Is that why your mom felt that she had to protect her, more than protecting you? I just don't get it - that is horrible.

/comfort

I hope all works out for you, and there is a good explanation as to why they put you through this.
 
the cops really can't do anything to you... my friend's a lawyer and he was reading this over my shoulder, and he was wondering if the cops ever heard of anything called hearsay? pretty much why i can go buy gil, and report the name of the guy who sent it to me to SE, and they can't do squat...

i would have just claimed innocent and called a lawyer on the matter, your credability isn't at issue, it was your sisters, who'd they find the drugs and pills on? not you, this isn't salem massachussettes circa 1674...

on another note sorry to hear it happened, but i'd look into some law advice from anyone you know who's knowledgable on the subject cuz this sounds pretty shitty
 
Yeah, Dallius hit it right on the nail. They have nothing but your sister's and your mother's words against you. With just that, the cops CANNOT search you or your property. If they try something like that they will have a lawyer so far up their asses so quickly they probably won't even know what jacked them.

Woah... my Law 12 class actually taught me something! I feel so... smart... :?

But on a side note, going back to smoking weed was probably your first mistake. Your second being trusting your sister and letting her join you. Stay sober man, its probably for the best. :wink:
 
I saw your lawyer statement and couldn't help the urge to tweak it.

"If they try something like that they will have a lawyer so far up their asses their dentists will wonder what they have been eating."
 
Not condoning(sp) the use of anything illegal in any way... :wink: I don't think they have anything to stand on. As far as your family goes, wow... I don't have siblings, but if I did I sure wouldn't rat them out. It was your sister's decision to partake, you didn't force her. And as far as the Rx goes, your mom, (and in no way am I making any judgement towards her), taking the Rx herself should know that antidepressants are perscribed on a VERY individual basis. So I think that a lot of things snowballed and ended up in your lap. Hope everything works out for you.
 
Like I said in the update post, they're not trying to get me on anything with pot (as I had originally thought) but rather for the Endangerment of a Child, for letting my sister smoke with me (Which I believe I could do time for if they were able to prove it). Doesn't matter much now though, I just have to do whatever little favor they asked me to do, and I'm off scot free, no record or anything.

Thanks for the thoughts guys, It's really appreciated. I've talked to my mother and sister about why they did it, and they said and quote, "We weren't going to lie to the cops"

. . .

Lying to the cops was telling them that I was involved in this little escapade at all. I've deduced more or less that they both were afraid to get nailed by the cops, so they lied, thus implicating me. I could have very well served time for this if not for dealing with one of the nicer cops of GPD, as he wasn't going to force me to rat on anyone (Not that I would have anyway, I'll serve time for something I didn't do before I rat on anyone). This whole thing is BS, and I have no intentions of sustaining regular contact with either my mother or sister. Dishonorable filth they are, and definitely not worth my time, blood or not.
 
Lecan said:
Lying to the cops was telling them that I was involved in this little escapade at all. I've deduced more or less that they both were afraid to get nailed by the cops, so they lied, thus implicating me. I could have very well served time for this if not for dealing with one of the nicer cops of GPD, as he wasn't going to force me to rat on anyone (Not that I would have anyway, I'll serve time for something I didn't do before I rat on anyone). This whole thing is BS, and I have no intentions of sustaining regular contact with either my mother or sister. Dishonorable filth they are, and definitely not worth my time, blood or not.

hell yeah... i would rather do time then rat out. happen to me about a month and a half ago cop bust me for having weed and he said, this can all go away if you give us names, and im like "i dont know what to tell you because your not getting any names". in the end i payed a $205 ticket and called it a day
 
Is marijuana even worth all that trouble? I think Mountain Dew has more of an effect on me than pot ever did. And with infinitely less hassle.
 
If you wouldnt of gotten bored and reverted to drugs (drugs are a bad nono) then you wouldnt be in the situation >_>;

Hope it works out for you ^^
 
Karihkinz said:
If you wouldnt of gotten bored and reverted to drugs (drugs are a bad nono) then you wouldnt be in the situation >_>;
I don't consider pot a "drug," like X or yayo. I guess it all depends on perspective.
 
I don't consider pot a "drug," like X or yayo. I guess it all depends on perspective

Or rather, it all depends on the perspective of the cop who can toss you in jail for something that's silly and ridiculously mild. Why bother?
 
Kelsilv said:
I don't consider pot a "drug," like X or yayo. I guess it all depends on perspective

Or rather, it all depends on the perspective of the cop who can toss you in jail for something that's silly and ridiculously mild. Why bother?
I wasn't going to. I could go on for a while about why I think pot should be legalized, but I won't. You can find that sort of thing on any hippy website.
 
Kelsilv said:
Is marijuana even worth all that trouble? I think Mountain Dew has more of an effect on me than pot ever did. And with infinitely less hassle.

:shock: except that pesky Yellow #5 in Mountain Dew that shrinks your testicals.... :shock:

/em lights up knowing that if she were to ever grow balls...they would be big and juicy :twisted: RAWRRRRRRRR
 
Man this sucks I feel for you. But remember you only have 1 family in your life. Before you throw that all away be sure.

Is it a crime for someone to have a prescription drug on them when they are currently getting prescriptions for it?

Before you burn your bridges and regret it forever..... Was the residue from the mariuana that you were sharing?

Residue can be simply dust from the pot you were smoking the night before, or it can be THC residue that can last from what I've heard 10 days on the surface of something. Don't quote me though because i'm no scientist. She did not necessarily have to have mariuana in her purse, she might not have even been able to see it, but the residue was still there.

Anyway take care man, I've been betrayed before too. If its really betrayal its very hard to forget that. If its not, they will have a hard time forgetting it too.

Take care.
 
I could go on for a while about why I think pot should be legalized, but I won't.

I don't disagree, I'm not sure why pot is illegal in the first place. I just think if you're willing to put up with all the potential legal troubles that marijuana can cause, you might as well switch to crack or meth or something. More bang for your buck and just as bad legal and social ramifications.

Shocked except that pesky Yellow #5 in Mountain Dew that shrinks your testicals.... Shocked

Holy shit I never knew, that explains so much!!! :wink:
 
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