Fuck my parents

wolfskymoon said:
My fucking parents are gayest on planet earth.All my dad says is "YOu are good for nothing" "Go work" "i'm getting rid of the cable" "Go die!! <== this pisses me off" and mm my sister has nothing to do but point at me so she can club all day and night.My dad even fucking stabbed me with a pen and i still have a whole in my hands.Its so fucking gay and i had A pluses always and i never got appreciation but now i get a C and they are making my life fucking hell.And then when u ask an rdm if he wants to party... [no thanks] damn!!! that lights a fire under my ass.I don't understand... when i used to be out 24/7 smoking with neighbourhood kids and galz..... they had a problem with that also so now WTF.And if i get kicked out of my house i'm going to rob a fucking bank and use that to pay for ffxi and booze for that.
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WSM, shitty parents can suck, but your life is in your hands.
You can choose to rob a bank to pay for FFXI and booze or just go work a job for minimum wage and that should cover those 2 habits easily.

If this is indeed your life, well I am not heartless and I do sympathize. But at some point you need to realize that if you do things for you, and with your future in mind, it will start to pay off...Not instantly. It's life man. I don't know anyone who would say it's easy.

If you always do what you've always done, then you'll always get what you've always gotten.

Do your thing, and stand on your own 2.
 
mugenteg said:
wow what i would not give to be a young again and having my parents pay for everything. I got a job at 16 and thats when i started paying for my own stuff.
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Same here. I am glad I did as well. It put a good head on my shoulders. I'd hate to be drifting through life blaming everyone for my problems and wishing and expecting that everything would just be handed to me.

If that sounds like you, you're a backwards ass. Change, or you'll rot and die.
 
You can change the vid cards in just about every laptop.

Eh... I don't have parents anymore, soon as I left I changed my last name, thinking of getting a new first one eventually, havn't heard about them since forever (thank god) doing great on my own (everything I expected it to be), and still wonder how they reacted to that nice long letter I sent them as my last contact. I wasn't stupid, I used them til I could make it on my own, and finished HS, THEN I let them know how I felt.

Guess that says enough. 8)
 
Darkdante said:
Krisy............ You mean to tell me all those years of schooling and you still by now only make good grades because your parents tell you so?
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I find this funny because I have understood this since I started high school (only 33 school days left until im out of there for good!). Yet, my parents more specifically my mother doesnt understand this. I get my work done because I know its improtant not because you nag like crazy.

Anyways, I pay for playing this game. PS2 was a christmas gift. Im getting a small scholarship but staying in state. Overall, my parents pay for alot of shit and I'll probably miss them a little when I leave, and I'll visit them etc. so I/you get mad at them alot, but they give you everything (arguably they should do that solely because you are they are your childreen and their responsibility but whatev.).
 
You kids have no idea what bad parents are. Let alone just how much harder life is without them. No matter what I say nothing convince you of this, and no matter how you try to wrap your mind around it... it's really beyond you.

How do I know? I'm twenty-two and have been on my own since I was almost seventeen. You really have NO clue. Honest to god, cross my heart and hoep to be labeled a noob... you have no clue.

You can't help it though. Cute little kids. :lol:
 
HAHA!! That's awesome. I've been working half of my life now, and I'm nowhere close to retirement. Feel that, you little shits.
Get used to it.
You're not different than the rest of it.
Stop thinking you've got it all figured out, and go earn a buck.
Pick up a shovel and put your back into it...
 
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Krisy, i said it before and i say it again... your parents are communists. I can follow their reasoning but they told or implyed to you that once your grades were up you'd be able to come back.

A) Tell them that since they aren't letting you play it they should have to pay for it.

B) continue sneaking on or going and playing at friend's houses.

C) send me the penitents i just realized in my last exp parties how much it helps.

As explaination your improvement of grades was actually working AGAINST your cause to get back to XI :

Now that they made you stop for a while and your grades are showing improvement they now associate no XI with improved grades, this means they feel if they continue to keep you from playing XI your grades will stay up or improve further but were they to let you go back they'd drop again.
 
Drop some acid...Kill your parents.



I do not condone the above actions, but I do recognize that it will get the parents to "go away".
 
lol, every1's rents like that. i just tell em that be lucky i'm not out drinking and doin drugs, and to stop bein bishes
 
Parents (most) want the best for their children... None of us are perfect...some of us better than others depending on the examples we had etc. I am admittedly not the greatest parent there ever was...in fact I am very painfully aware of my shortcomings from time to time.

There is nothing in this world more important to me than the hapiness and well being of my children. That being said...I understand that sometimes I have to do or say things that make my children unhapy in the short run in order to (help) assure their happiness in the future. I have had a LOT of experiences in my life...including some very unpleasant ones. I of course don't want my children to go through some of the difficulties I've had to face so try to steer them in more positive directions...I do realize however that my children will have to learn some things on their own.

I recently had to lay down the law with my daughter regarding grades (she's 11 and started middle school this year). She started off the year great...all A's and B's. One weekend over christmas break she was at a freind's house staying the night. She had forgotten to leave the number when she left (her stepdad took her and he forgot to ask). I went through her bookbag/notebook looking for the number and found progres reports that showed that several of her grades had dropped to a D! I was shocked and upset to say the least. I picked her up early the next morning...brought her home and sat her down for a talk. I was very calm...I wanted to understand what happened..why the change. The was immediately in tears though my voice was soft. I could tell she was quite angry at me..what I explained to her was exactly what someone else here said. If I didn't care about her...I wouldn't have said anything. She has talked about becoming a vet almost from the time she could talk. I explained to her that we would not be able to afford to pay for all of her schooling and that she would need to work on getting scholarships etc. I want more than anything for her to fulfill her dreams.

Young people don't always recognize that the choices that they make (or don't make by inaction) can affect the rest of your life....limiting the choices you have further down the road. It is my responsibility while my children are still young to give them the best possible foundation...hopefully one that will help them to learn how to make their own decisions and to learn that sometimes we need to put off what we want today so that we can have something more meaningful tomorrow. My mother was strict...there were times when I felt she was unfair..I realize now that whe was doing the best she could...and I am thankful for that. Had she not been that kind of parent...my life might be much different...and not in a positive way.

You never know...someday you may look back and think that maybe your parents weren't so bad afterall.
 
Excellent post, Kiere!
Bravo!!
/praise

Good Mommy!!
 
Blackchaoshero said:
O_O;;

C) send me the penitents i just realized in my last exp parties how much it helps.
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haha, umm if im grounded more i guess ill send.


As for a majority of the posts from the older crowd:

1) I do appreciate what my parents do for me (as in pay for me to live pretty much)
2) I KNOW that living on your own isn't cheap. I know life isn't better when I will be on my own (in some ways it is and other it isn't).
3) I already know they do this because they care. I'm not an ignorant brat.
4) I already do work. I already do pay for much of my own stuff. I'm not gonna be in shock of how expensive it is to live on your own (i have two older siblings to learn from). Yes i admit that i won't be fully prepared, but few are.
 
Krisy said:
Blackchaoshero said:
O_O;;

C) send me the penitents i just realized in my last exp parties how much it helps.
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haha, umm if im grounded more i guess ill send.


As for a majority of the posts from the older crowd:

1) I do appreciate what my parents do for me (as in pay for me to live pretty much)
2) I KNOW that living on your own isn't cheap. I know life isn't better when I will be on my own (in some ways it is and other it isn't).
3) I already know they do this because they care. I'm not an ignorant brat.
4) I already do work. I already do pay for much of my own stuff. I'm not gonna be in shock of how expensive it is to live on your own (i have two older siblings to learn from). Yes i admit that i won't be fully prepared, but few are.
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hmmmm...I'm sorry the whole "Fuck my parents..yes they are gay" part must've thrown me off :?
 
Krisy said:
Kiere said:
hmmmm...I'm sorry the whole "Fuck my parents..yes they are gay" part must've thrown me off :?
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Those heat of the moment things bite you in the ass later on always :-P
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yeah don't worry...that's just another one of those things that most people get better at avoiding as they mature..hehe
 
Krisy said:
Yes, they are fucking gay. I improve my fucking grades and they are still giving me shit. FUCK THAT! Oh how i wish i was 18 and could move out. W/e only half a year more of their fucking bullshit.
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You shouldn't talk about your parents like that. I understand that you're upset but FFXI is a -game-, your parents are your -parents-. You don't realize that as much shit as they give you, you've given THEM a thousand times more. What they give you can't even put a scratch on what they've put up with to raise you to be the person that you are today. You have THEM to thank for that. They're only doing what they believe to be the right thing. Trust them, they actually DO know what they're talking about, like, 95% of the time. They've been there and done that. I only wish I could go back, you don't have any clue how much harder life is without them. It may sound great, yes, but living on your own is a billion times harder. Stay with them as long as you can, you're only a child once.=, you can never go back to that.
 
Marael said:
Krisy said:
Yes, they are fucking gay. I improve my fucking grades and they are still giving me shit. FUCK THAT! Oh how i wish i was 18 and could move out. W/e only half a year more of their fucking bullshit.
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You shouldn't talk about your parents like that. I understand that you're upset but FFXI is a -game-, your parents are your -parents-. You don't realize that as much shit as they give you, you've given THEM a thousand times more. What they give you can't even put a scratch on what they've put up with to raise you to be the person that you are today. You have THEM to thank for that. They're only doing what they believe to be the right thing. Trust them, they actually DO know what they're talking about, like, 95% of the time. They've been there and done that. I only wish I could go back, you don't have any clue how much harder life is without them. It may sound great, yes, but living on your own is a billion times harder. Stay with them as long as you can, you're only a child once.=, you can never go back to that.
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Well, thanks for the advice. That was one of those heat of the moment posts where i forgot to count to 10 before i did anything irrational ><. Well, i was just angry that my parents didn't stick to their promise and did what they wanted.
 
I have a question for the parents or older crowd out there.

Do you think my parents should let me go to a hotel after prom? My mom seems to think it a bad idea ><. She says something intimate could happen between me and my date or someone else. Every other person i know is going to the damn hotel and they won't let me.
 
Hell fucking no they shouldn't!
I don't plan on letting any of my kids do this when they reach the appropriate age.
If you don't think anything is gunna happen, then your even more niaeve than I first thought. I'f your only 18 you don't need a child in your life! Especially if you plan to be independent like you say.

And this argument, of "well everyonne else is doing it, why the hell can't I ?" Is sad. It's the same argument I used to use when I smoked, ohhhh everyone else does it can't be a bad thing. Or my granparents who died from alchohol poisining because they were alchoholics. Oh everyone drinks, it can't be a bad thing. Sorry but you sound like a shelterd child who is simply pissed because she doesn't get what she wants.

And finnally if this hotel thing is sanctioned by your school, thats unbeleviably irresponsable, of them. They going to be passing out condoms and birth control pills as insurance . . seriously WTF!
 
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