but some people can't/won't play in parties for four hours at a time. Why, you might ask? Well, maybe they aren't having any fun because someone in the party is insisting that everything must be done just so with razor precision to ensure that the maximum amount of exp is gained in the minimum amount of time. It's fun when the exp flows freely, yes, but not when it's forced at the expense of a good time
This a common problem, when people start telling other people how to play it gets annoying, it's hard to offer suggestions without comming off as a jerk, casue well tone of voice isn't translated to text. I noticed that a lot fo times in pick up parties people dont' talk alot, they just do their job or bitch about other people, which is why staticing is godly, cause you get close to a group of people and its fun.
Which is better: maximum ammount of exp with jerks, or good exp with friends? well personally i'll take the latter, which might explain my slow lvling =P it's a game it should be fun.