Punitan, you just have bad luck I think.
Just as there are a lot of players that are used to playing for themselves and their goals (do the most damage in the party) instead of team goals (try to get a good rate of EXP to hour). A lot of NA's that play this game are young, and usually the less team-oriented player is either inexperienced in an online community, hasn't played team sports (teaches teamwork and self-sacrifice for the good of more people than yourself, but I've met a lot of people in my life who know this lesson without even picking up a baseball bat or a basketball), or just don't care what happens.
A lot of NA would love to party with JP. I'm one of those, and I've only been in a few JP parties in my FFXI gaming time, each one was very friendly. Yositune and Utubo were nice enough to befriend me after an Altepa party back when I was a 30-something BLM... that was a very enjoyable 2 hours. All players were friendly (Yositune translating the important things for me). We had a good laugh when I told them I had to go to work, to go cook. One of the mithra said something like "Mithra Wife Mog House Delivery Box Do you need it?" in auto-translator, there were WWWWWWW's all around...
I'm just afraid that I won't be given the chance to meet any more JP players just because I'm American, so I know how you feel Punitan.
Just as there are a lot of players that are used to playing for themselves and their goals (do the most damage in the party) instead of team goals (try to get a good rate of EXP to hour). A lot of NA's that play this game are young, and usually the less team-oriented player is either inexperienced in an online community, hasn't played team sports (teaches teamwork and self-sacrifice for the good of more people than yourself, but I've met a lot of people in my life who know this lesson without even picking up a baseball bat or a basketball), or just don't care what happens.
A lot of NA would love to party with JP. I'm one of those, and I've only been in a few JP parties in my FFXI gaming time, each one was very friendly. Yositune and Utubo were nice enough to befriend me after an Altepa party back when I was a 30-something BLM... that was a very enjoyable 2 hours. All players were friendly (Yositune translating the important things for me). We had a good laugh when I told them I had to go to work, to go cook. One of the mithra said something like "Mithra Wife Mog House Delivery Box Do you need it?" in auto-translator, there were WWWWWWW's all around...
I'm just afraid that I won't be given the chance to meet any more JP players just because I'm American, so I know how you feel Punitan.