Nice try ladies...
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Sounds like one more pathetic excuse for a man to get off and leave his woman hanging.
I agree with Sneaky and several others. If you're doing it right, you don't doubt it exists because you've seen the results. For men that are real men, they can please their woman in a million ways that don't have anything to do with the g-spot either. Other men need a diagram and a GPS because they're not willing to ask. It's ok... they can claim research proves it doesn't exist if it makes them feel more manly.
The fact is, just like men, every woman orgasms differently and there are people who have medical or psychological issues (or are just plain prudes) that just can't achieve orgasm at all or achieve one they can hardly tell they had. There's all kinds of holes involved in that "study" (no pun intended).
I agree with Sneaky and several others. If you're doing it right, you don't doubt it exists because you've seen the results. For men that are real men, they can please their woman in a million ways that don't have anything to do with the g-spot either. Other men need a diagram and a GPS because they're not willing to ask. It's ok... they can claim research proves it doesn't exist if it makes them feel more manly.
The fact is, just like men, every woman orgasms differently and there are people who have medical or psychological issues (or are just plain prudes) that just can't achieve orgasm at all or achieve one they can hardly tell they had. There's all kinds of holes involved in that "study" (no pun intended).
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I agree with what Hali said. "Real" or not, women can have orgasms (obviously) regardless if there is a special little spot you can play around with. Don't use it as an excuse to get yourself off and be done with it.
A guys "g-spot" is next to their prostate, go figure.
A guys "g-spot" is next to their prostate, go figure.
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"You have reached the achievement: Orgasm!"
Congratulations!
Congratulations!
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You'd actually be surprised at the amount of women that can't orgasm. More often than not its not the man's fault, its her own, in a weird way. There's even courses you can take to fix that, and the usual process is
- Play with yourself
- Play with yourself in the presence of your boyfriend
- Let your boyfriend play with you
- ???
- Problem solved
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I could use lots of slang phrases. My point is, for some unfortunate people, it is an achievement. But then I don't think in xbox either. lol
I'd bet a lot of money that 95% of the time, it's not due to the woman's inability.
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According to the study, it is. Then again, study was done by men.
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Well there are a lot of women out there that have been taught that masturbation is dirty so many are timid to do it much less talk about it. Yeah the number is going down with that statistic but a lot of women don't even know what to do thus they can't find it themselves. Some studies' numbers get messed up because some women don't want to admit that hey don't know where it is. It can be a big source of embarrassment for them and pressures them to try to find it only too be too stressed to find it or they just stop looking.
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I won't lie, this thread turns me on. Talk more about sex and dirty things, females of Qcdn. Turn the limecat on, daddy wants to play.
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You even have an inch and a half to play with!
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I'll be happy to take your money, would you be sending it by check, money order, or Paypal.
It takes two to tango, and if the woman isn't getting off from what her partner's doing, then it's her responsibility to tell him (or her) what feels good.
It's not so much an inability as it's a lack of know-how.
Some women are not comfortable enough to play in order to be self taught. This can pose the issue. Not always though.
Some women are more than comfortable enough but their physical structure, shape, size etc poses the problem and neither she nor any partner can 'reach' said G-spot. Or only certain positions will stimulate the G-Spot.
Often times men give up. It's not an easy spot to hit in most women. Depends on their shape, as I say below. If a woman is shallow, not her personality but her vagina then often times it's easier for that woman to hit her G-Spot. Then again how many of us consider women who are born with an inverted uterus WHICH is extremely common, or all the other millions of variables?? This study sounds lacking to me.
It's there people. It's a matter of learning. And if a guy is really all that un-selfish and knows his woman isn't saying anything maybe he could prompt her for feed back? I mean you would think men want to know they're doing a good job right? If their partner never gets off I'd say that's enough for a huge F-.
Also not to state the obvious, but sometimes it's necessary. There still are 2 ways in which women can cum. And if men can't find the button, and still need instruction.. maybe you should switch teams. Just sayin.
Some women are not comfortable enough to play in order to be self taught. This can pose the issue. Not always though.
Some women are more than comfortable enough but their physical structure, shape, size etc poses the problem and neither she nor any partner can 'reach' said G-spot. Or only certain positions will stimulate the G-Spot.
Often times men give up. It's not an easy spot to hit in most women. Depends on their shape, as I say below. If a woman is shallow, not her personality but her vagina then often times it's easier for that woman to hit her G-Spot. Then again how many of us consider women who are born with an inverted uterus WHICH is extremely common, or all the other millions of variables?? This study sounds lacking to me.
It's there people. It's a matter of learning. And if a guy is really all that un-selfish and knows his woman isn't saying anything maybe he could prompt her for feed back? I mean you would think men want to know they're doing a good job right? If their partner never gets off I'd say that's enough for a huge F-.
Also not to state the obvious, but sometimes it's necessary. There still are 2 ways in which women can cum. And if men can't find the button, and still need instruction.. maybe you should switch teams. Just sayin.
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Beat me to it lol. If women want to orgasm you need to tell the man what he is doing wrong and what he needs to be doing. Of course, don't make him feel completely bad about doing it wrong, but just say "you should try doing this" or something. You can't expect every man to know what he's doing. And as someone previously said, women likes different things.
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I never had a problem making her cum.
Wait, change the e and the r in her to an i and a m.
Wait, change the e and the r in her to an i and a m.
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Which is kind of my point. If it were done by women, you'd have had a more honest result.
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Well then you guys are in the miniscule minority of men who want to hear it. There are plenty of men out there who would get all pissy about it because none of them want to hear they're not getting the job done. You can say it ain't so, but I'm telling you it is.
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I'll agree with you on the fact there are people out there that don't care about satisfying their partners, but again, that isn't a 'Get Out of Jail Free' card.
A major issue my best friend is currently dealing with.
Her man cannot handle her suggesting anything. It insults him and she's tried to ensure him it's not an attack but also that it's NOT ABOUT HIM =p
Yeah I agree with you on that to a point Zyn. But most male friends I know would much rather hear and learn then have a women not say anything.
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Yeah, I like my women loud in the bed room, so if it's too quiet, I'm also gonna ask wtf am I doin wrong XD
Learn this guys, women talk, if you are good, or bad in bed,they will let their friends know, which may in turn lead to more fun in the sack!
The g-spot exists, its just some nerds are too lazy or "manly" to bother to find it or ask.
Learn this guys, women talk, if you are good, or bad in bed,they will let their friends know, which may in turn lead to more fun in the sack!
The g-spot exists, its just some nerds are too lazy or "manly" to bother to find it or ask.