For my MNK, for TP gear, I use this list of equipment:
Head- Turban
Neck- Chivalrous Chain
Body- Shura Togi
Hands- Bandomusha Kote
Waist- Brown Belt
Back- Forager's Mantle
Left Earring- Brutal Earring
Right Earring- Merman's Earring
Left Ring- Rajas Ring
Right Ring- Flame Ring
Legs- Byakko's Haidate
Feet- Dune Boots
Ammo- Tiphia Sting
I have been 75 MNK for 1 year 9 months so I do all the testing, extensively, and in my opinion, for the best damage while gaining tp, I like to add more attack. As you can see from my gear, I mix it up with haste, attack, and str. It is a very good balance, in my opinion. Weaponskill gear, however, is much different. The changes for WS gear are as follows:
Head- Shura Zunari Kabuto (if using sushi, this is Genbu's Kabuto)
Neck- Soil Gorget
Right Earring- Triumph Earring
Hands- Alky Bracelets
Body- Kirin's Osode
Legs- Shura Haidate
Feet- Rasetsu Sun-Ate +1
Feel free to mess around with it, but for MNK the best is a nice mix of haste, attack, and STR with a main focus around attack (hence my choice to use shura togi instead of Kirin's Osode for TP gain.) Again, test all options out yourself, but for me this setup works the best.
~Legolias