The Decline of QCDN

[Mirewen]

(I really hope that one doesn't go over your head b/c we're not allowed to talk about real life here!)

No dear, I'm the one who's points go to waste. You mention RL as a cheap shot (thanks Cheebs) when you are in the situation to ONLY know one side. Pitty.

 

[Orinna]

You told me your side... But nvm. I wasn't even trying to make a cheap shot. But I guess that doesn't even matter. You'll take anything I say wrong.

No dear, I'm the one who's points go to waste. You mention RL as a cheap shot (thanks Cheebs) when you are in the situation to ONLY know one side. Pitty.

 

[Mirewen]

Gee I wonder why... and I wasn't the only one to see the shot.

 

[Mirewen]

You told me your side...

Oh and btw, if "you told me your side" equals, befriending me, then telling people I befriended you, having a hissy fit at me while sending me "nice" PM's and writing a profane blog on a difference site about me, counts to you as indifference, bravo.

 

[Mirewen]

Oh and btw, if "you told me your side" equals, befriending me, then telling people I befriended you, having a hissy fit at me while sending me "nice" PM's and writing a profane blog on a different site about me, counts to you as indifference, bravo.

edited.

 

[Meikolia]

You told me your side... But nvm. I wasn't even trying to make a cheap shot. But I guess that doesn't even matter. You'll take anything I say wrong.

Oh and btw, if "you told me your side" equals, befriending me, then telling people I befriended you, having a hissy fit at me while sending me "nice" PM's and writing a profane blog on a difference site about me, counts to you as indifference, bravo.

Everyone will always be entitled to form their opinions. You don't have to like the outcome or response but it is how you say...a chain reaction. You see the problem is, real life is not something that can not be approached on this board with good reason. Orinna and Mirewen have a connection simply put. Probably not a connection filled with sunshine, rainbows and lollipops I would assume.

What's troubling me a bit Mirewen is that this same sorted connection, that once exsited between us. Now I'm not going into details because i'm a big girl and learned just to grow past certain things,and for the most part I am a pretty forgiving kind of lady, but doesn't it bother you just a little bit that this is probably not the first time your name has been tossed in the mud? To be fair we all have our own intentions and our own motives even on a video game. Do you remember why we stopped speaking to each other for almost 3 years? I'm just going to leave it at that. I have to admit, the first time I heard about you and RL drama outside of us ... i wasn't really surprised, but a second time hearing the same story or eluding to the same story... I don't know really what to think.

I'm not saying that Audino is completely in the right for saying what they are saying or bashing you because I don't think it belongs on the flameboard as a personal vendetta or grudge, however would it strike you as truth that perhaps after whatever happened that perhaps they are learning this wasn't something that just happened... that this ride has been driven before? I'm not taking sides hun i'm really not but what kind of reaction would expect with such a sorted past?

In all honesty Audino comes out with guns blazing that's just the kind of guy I have discovered that he is. You of course you are on the defensive because you know that the details of why he can't stand you will never be brought to light at least not here and you will never be able to tell that story here.

I like you as a person, and once a partner in crime before we had our own falling out. I don't know what direction to tell you is best. But he feels how he feels and you feel how you feel but maybe the tidbits of neither story shouldn't be here.

 

[Mirewen]

Everyone will always be entitled to form their opinions. You don't have to like the outcome or response but it is how you say...a chain reaction. You see the problem is, real life is not something that can not be approached on this board with good reason. Orinna and Mirewen have a connection simply put. Probably not a connection filled with sunshine, rainbows and lollipops I would assume.

What's troubling me a bit Mirewen is that this same sorted connection, that once exsited between us. Now I'm not going into details because i'm a big girl and learned just to grow past certain things,and for the most part I am a pretty forgiving kind of lady, but doesn't it bother you just a little bit that this is probably not the first time your name has been tossed in the mud? To be fair we all have our own intentions and our own motives even on a video game. Do you remember why we stopped speaking to each other for almost 3 years? I'm just going to leave it at that. I have to admit, the first time I heard about you and RL drama outside of us ... i wasn't really surprised, but a second time hearing the same story or eluding to the same story... I don't know really what to think.

I'm not saying that Audino is completely in the right for saying what they are saying or bashing you because I don't think it belongs on the flameboard as a personal vendetta or grudge, however would it strike you as truth that perhaps after whatever happened that perhaps they are learning this wasn't something that just happened... that this ride has been driven before? I'm not taking sides hun i'm really not but what kind of reaction would expect with such a sorted past?

In all honesty Audino comes out with guns blazing that's just the kind of guy I have discovered that he is. You of course you are on the defensive because you know that the details of why he can't stand you will never be brought to light at least not here and you will never be able to tell that story here.

I like you as a person, and once a partner in crime before we had our own falling out. I don't know what direction to tell you is best. But he feels how he feels and you feel how you feel but maybe the tidbits of neither story shouldn't be here.

A. I'm guessing you don't know the "relationship" between me and Orinna, because there isn't one aside from a couple PM's. You and I were friends and we had a falling out, then came to terms. Nothing even remotely similar.

B. Our past has nothing to do with this, any "relationship" to Orinna has nothing to do with this. I don't know why you're bringing up the past then calling it the past when obviously it isn't to you, because this is the second time you have now brought it up.

C. The flame is about my PC+1, my posting in the chat box (about 6 months ago) and my being a part of a social group that I haven't been in for a couple months now and wasn't even in when certain "events" happened.

You're bringing things up that have nothing to do with anything that was posted, things that happened about... 4 years ago? Maybe 5 now? You act like you're taking the higher ground, but you keep bringing it up. Obviously you do still hold a grudge.

 

[Mistra]

Pity. Read the entire original post, and didn't have a single laugh. Mighty antagonistic, though. Good job there, I suppose.

"What did I do today, you ask? I talked some stuff and threw it in people's faces that I don't like. Yeah. I'm above them. It's obvious, isn't it?"

The above is roughly what I got out of the post. Whatever gives you a rise, I suppose. But, really, can't say I'd expect anything else from Audino.

Don't let the door hit you on your way out - I didn't.

 

[Falsey]

A. I'm guessing you don't know the "relationship" between me and Orinna, because there isn't one aside from a couple PM's. You and I were friends and we had a falling out, then came to terms. Nothing even remotely similar.

B. Our past has nothing to do with this, any "relationship" to Orinna has nothing to do with this. I don't know why you're bringing up the past then calling it the past when obviously it isn't to you, because this is the second time you have now brought it up.

C. The flame is about my PC+1, my posting in the chat box (about 6 months ago) and my being a part of a social group that I haven't been in for a couple months now and wasn't even in when certain "events" happened.

You're bringing things up that have nothing to do with anything that was posted, things that happened about... 4 years ago? Maybe 5 now? You act like you're taking the higher ground, but you keep bringing it up. Obviously you do still hold a grudge.

yep the flame is totally about you.

you know this would have ended by now if you had just stopped posting on page 5.

 

[Morcheeba]

This is how I see it as far as judgement goes. Everyone is going to ‘believe what they want’ regardless of the ‘facts’ and opinions shared regarding an individual. That’s besides the point. What I see happen here are people treating others with blatant disrespect based on that persons past/present relationship with another. I personally try my damnest to avoid acting like this because I think it’s a pretty low, immature, naïve and straight out retarded fucking act.

Example, Dino and Mire, they have their issues with each other. I believe myself to be friends with both of them. They have both shared at least a bit of the background as to WHY they do not like each other. My outlook, I don’t care, I care that it may grief them or whatever but their opinion of each other will not hold any bearing on my opinion of them. Why? Well that’s simple, something I’ve learned over the years and I expect most should have learned. That’s their relationship; it’s their past and their problems. That’s not my experience with either one of them so how do I have the right to hold their issues over their heads when it doesn’t have anything to do with me. I.Am.Third.Party.

So until one of my friends gives me a reason to treat them with disrespect or poorly in general I won’t. Sorry if that makes me a hippie (lol Dino) or whatever you may think. I think it makes me a better person.

In short, I have a number of friends that do not get along with or flat out loathe other friends, I find myself ‘in the middle’ but I will not burden myself with their history or issues.

I listen, I don’t like hearing nasty shit said about another friend but I tend to remind people, ‘well I haven’t had any of those problems’ etc.

Now as far as this actualy flame goes...

Mei, Dino makes comments in a manner due to Mire and his past, at least that's how I see it. He uses some brutally honest ways of getting his point across, this I understand, and that IS consistant, BUT if you, rather I can see the difference in his addressing some random asshat and someone he has a past with.

If he wants to flame about her use of PC+1's fine.

Flame Hexx for his.. idk whatever the fuck he was flamed for, really it was a bunch of insults, PC+'s and other random stuff.

I did say there wasn't much content really and I still feel that.

Overall the decline of QCDN is because time passes, people change, people leave, people go. Everyone has a hand in it.

 

[Audino]

Watch out everyone. Mistra, the hacker, is STILL too cool for the room. What would this site be without a shitty and failed author? You're not still acting like you're Morwens father, are you? You're just a pompous, self righteous pathetic dude. As for Mire, maybe its time to leave Ms EverywhereQCDN alone. She's starting to try too hard to "prove her points." Where is Shyrra when you need him? I know he's got lots of fun things on Mire.

 

[Morcheeba]

As for Mire, maybe its time to leave Ms EverywhereQCDN alone. She's starting to try too hard to "prove her points." Where is Shyrra when you need him? I know he's got lots of fun things on Mire.

Here's the thing Dino. She's managed to stay pretty much on topic this entire discussion. Even with all the left field comments coming from different parties about shit that has nothing to do with the original attack, he PC+1's. She addressed those few individuals and still pointed out that it has nothing to do with you pointing out the PC+1's.

Why get Shyrra to dig up 'fun things'? What exactly are you trying to accomplish with that comment?

Discredit her further? Because you do a very good job, as does other bandwagoners (I'm going to use that term because it seems to be the word of the month!!)

You addressed the PC+1's, she retorted, and then it turned into a discussion discrediting her for past issues. Again here we are.

All this talk about the 'Decline', and yet this discussion has gone off topic a number of times.

This thread, you are right in saying, is a perfect example.

 

[Mistra]

Hah. Adorable! Please, continue. Really.

Self righteous... Okay, I can see that. Pompous? Sure, we'll go along with that one too.

Failed author? I don't think you really have the guns to tackle that one, though.

Calm down, drink some tea.

 

[Meikolia]

A. I'm guessing you don't know the "relationship" between me and Orinna, because there isn't one aside from a couple PM's. You and I were friends and we had a falling out, then came to terms. Nothing even remotely similar.

B. Our past has nothing to do with this, any "relationship" to Orinna has nothing to do with this. I don't know why you're bringing up the past then calling it the past when obviously it isn't to you, because this is the second time you have now brought it up.

C. The flame is about my PC+1, my posting in the chat box (about 6 months ago) and my being a part of a social group that I haven't been in for a couple months now and wasn't even in when certain "events" happened.

You're bringing things up that have nothing to do with anything that was posted, things that happened about... 4 years ago? Maybe 5 now? You act like you're taking the higher ground, but you keep bringing it up. Obviously you do still hold a grudge.

A. I don't care either way, really. It just seems that it's more then just a few PM's. Again not my business and seriously staying out of it.

B.Hm, okay see the thing is from what I understand, or what has been eluded, the "situation" is some what similar. That's all nothing more nothing less.

C.This may have started about your PC+1 and what not but people calling you a bitch...about PC+1 ... gotta be a bit more behind that. Again now not caring and not caring since obviously it flew right by you.

D. I have absolutely no reason to hold a grudge. Why? Well, I just don't would be a tad stupid don't you think? I was just pointing out that the situation seems very similar, however of course you will make it sound other wise implying I have a need to hold a grudge since I clearly stated that I like you as a person. La la, I am taking the higher ground because I am not telling everyone your business I may elude to a similar situation but nothing has been said. I'm not the one dragging you through the mud by pointing out every post you have made in the last 6 months and feeling the need to make you look like an asshole. I actually thought it was a bit mean... silly me. I don't even know what this PC+1 crap is. Maybe I didn't make myself clear, What I meant to say was perhaps people have formed opinions of your due to different encounters.

Someone clearly pointed out that no matter what I said you were going to find a way to make it seem otherwise. I guess they were right.
I'm done here.

 

[Mirewen]

Where is Shyrra when you need him? I know he's got lots of fun things on Mire.

I like how you post things alluding to things you can't "prove". Oh but you don't like that word do you, because with it, you have no arguement. I could say the same to you, but I wont because I don't want to bring people into this that have no need to be here.

would be a tad stupid don't you think?

That was my point, glad you finally saw it.

This was fun for a while, now it's just boring. And yes Falsey, I see that, I should have taken the road Linh did and just laughed and shook my head because it was nothing more than a little rant from someone who just likes to rant.

Continue on with your "flame" if you want to call it that, I've wasted enough of my time.

 

[Dancingweapon]

I don't get why this flame is just about bringing up old dirt on people?

I mean some of this stuff happened months ago, but if this flame is about bringing up some old dirt on people that they think are friends? Then incoming shitstorm.

 

[Miros]

I happily declare this semi-decent flame that turned into a pissing contest that turned into one sided arguments that turned into just...weird shit over.

Should anyone want it re-opened feel free to PM with reason. But I think at this time it's best to let it die.

Hail Fumoffu.