I was invited as RDM34/BLM17 by another RDM in the party as a replacement. He sent me a tell saying to "/tell Blackwizzrd" and as soon as I did, I was invited.
First sign: BW was /anon.
En route to the party I ask "so what am I doing, enfeebling/nuking or healing? Please say nuking, because I completely blow at healing, and the dude I'm replacing didn't indicate before asking me to replace him..."
Reply: "Main heal LOL"
Me: "Goddamnit, ok, well I'll live."
I get to the party and on the first fight, I notice that BW has over 550 MP compared to my meager 430. Yeah, not a vast amount, but I figure "what the hell" and go to healing. I see the fucker cast Titan.
He doesn't begin helping me out with Cure duty until the entire party starts badgering him to help me. I'm keeping my way around with Regens and Cure IIs, not pulling hate. He pulls hate and I end up having to Cure Bomb him to pull it back off >.>
He then has the audacity to tell me to "level ur WHM" (there's that word ur again) because "parties wont invite you if you sub BLM".
My response: "Parties wont invite a Summoner who doesn't at least assist with healing duties."
I agree with Ice fully. The rest of the party was cool as shit. This guy was a useless lump of pixels, and I would never have run out of MP had I just had a different mage there.