There's just nothing you can do.
Sorry for posting PMs, but meh, this shit's fucking annoying.
For reference: http://www.qcdn.org/ffxi/showthread.php?t=43673&page=13
That's THE chick. NOT "A" chick.
Quite literally, a large, difference.
+ A note from our beloved Sabs. <3
"Werd, yay...