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You probably say "I'm sorry to hear that" and go on with your day. Nope, it's not your job to listen, and you may not even care. But grief does weird things to people... they don't always know what to do with it.
Which leads me to another pet peeve (and please don't think I am attacking you personally, Ex): Why is there so little common courtesy left in the world? Things like basic human acknowledgement that something bad has happened to someone - have we become so desensitized as a culture that we see another human being upset and we just click off because it's "not our problem?" I don't know, I'm not suggesting make the world's problems your problems or lets all hold hands and cumbaya, but it seems there's a basic human compassion that is lost on a lot of people these days. For all two seconds of kindness it takes, is it that much of a burden?
Actually, you got me backwards. Im that teller who is talking to someone for five minutes with people in line because something is wrong that they told me and ill chit chat and try to make them feel better. I may not know what to say but showing an honesty to your words goes a long way. Ive had a few customers come in with grief notes ive sent them and personally said thank you.
But, i get you. How often do we see a broken down car, or worse yet someone getting beaten up on the side of the road, only to see every car in morning rush hour just slow down to rubber neck then continue on their way because they cant be late, or dont care enough to stop.
I heard a story the other day, this older woman was leaving a circle K i frequent, when a shady older man was shadowing her. The clerk who is my friend called the car upholstry shop next door, where she was walking, and one of the younger guys walked out straight to the man and plain out said "What the HELL do you think your doing?!". The man left and the younger gentleman took his time to walk the lady home, about a mile away.
Thats why I still have hope in this world.
Edit: I think I know why people talk to tellers and open up as much as they do. Despite the fact that I may not want to know about your sex life or your kids or your problems, We are an unbiassed party, fairly anonymous to them, but they have a trust in us because we handle their money. So the fact that we can give an outside opinion in a professional atmosphere must mean something.
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